Remember, when it comes to chastity play, safety and consent are key. Follow these rules and you’re sure to have a good time.
One – Chastity Play
Your keyholder is your owner and as such they own every part of you and your body and in return you mustlove and obey them. They are entitled to determine which parts of your body are used, and when they are used.
With this in mind, your owner has every right to secure your penis in some form of chastity device of both of your choosing.
Your owner may lock you up at any time they choose and for however long they deem in necessary.
Two – Chastity Play
An owner does not need to provide you with any justification or reason in order to secure you in a chastity device. Only concern is that your owner wants to, and that by itself is reason enough.
Whether you want to be secured or not, has no relevance to the situation as per the agreement made in your relationship and Chastity Document.
Three – Chastity Play
Under no circumstances (excepting in health and safety emergencies) are you permitted to attempt to remove, alter or bypass the chastity device.
The terms of the relationship with which you have agreed to are fully obligated to co-operate with your owner in the fitting of the chastity device.
You must draw your owners attention to any fault in the device which may impact on its functionality. So that your owner can ensure that the device performs as it is intended to perform.
Four – Chastity Play
It is your responsibility and duty to keep yourself clean and care for in the area of your manhood. So, that the wearing of the device is not impeded through health concerns.
Following regular cleaning and care, you can continue to be locked up for as long as your owner demands it of you. This is for submission of prostate milking also so that you can be cleaned internally as well.
Five – Chastity Play
You must remember that your owner has locked up your manhood for the precise reason that you can no longer masturbate or achieve an erection or orgasm.
Your manhood is no longer there for your pleasure, but for your owners.
Six – Chastity Play
It is your duty and obligation to inform your owner of your experiences whilst wearing the device.
You should regularly look at your chastity cage in order to remind yourself of the pleasures that you once had. That were in your control and which are now locked away from you.
You should let your owner know how you feel, as they may enjoy hearing about your suffering and longing.
Seven – Chastity Play
In the form of humiliation and subject to your agreement, your owner is entitled to remind you about your inability to obtain an erection. Or get any form of sexual release.
It has been taken that away from you and your owner chooses to enjoy that teasing. They can get satisfaction at any time that they want, whereas you cannot.
Your owner will find this amusing and want to remind you about this continually.
Eight – Chastity Play
Dependent on the agreement that you have signed, your secret is not entitled to remain a secret. If your owner chooses to tell people about the chastity device, your owner may do so.
Nine – Chastity Play
Your owner is allowed to provide stimulation to you in any form that they see fit. This may include, but not be limited to exposure to erotic imagery and material, direct physical contact.
Ten – Chastity Play
It is your duty to take pleasure in the idea that your owner takes time from their day in order to control the use of their property. And that this will give them amusement.
You should always be thankful for having your owner to secure you in a chastity device. And you should always be letting them know how thankful you are for that. Demonstrate this by being attentive and loyal.
Take pleasure in the fact that your owner takes the time to control the use of her property and happy that it gives her some amusement.
You should always thank her for securing you in chastity.
Let her know how grateful you are to have your genitals locked up under her control.
Always be happy if she decides to extend your time in chastity and tell her how much you like to continue being emasculated.
Four Commandments For The Key Holder
One
A key Holder should not have time to play mind games. The fact that they have a key should be indication that they are in charge.
Two
There is no room for obscure power games, or power plays, or even petty maneuvering. The key holder is the key holder and that is the power that they have and are limited to.
Three
A key holder has no right and is not entitled to resort to any form of abusive behaviour not outlined in the in the agreement of the relationship.
They are not entitled to name calling, to put you down, belittle or physically abuse you in any form. There are always hack saws!
Four
Remember that if they want something then they should clearly state their needs and demands.
Keyholders should not sulk and they should not confront their chaste male with such phrases as ‘You Should Have Remembered’ or ‘How Could You Forget’.
There is no room for obscure mind games in chastity play.
Gone are the days when chastity and bondage was frowned upon as an alternate lifestyle choice. Many partakers now use it as a form of art.
Chastity Device Materials
There is a myriad of different chastity style devices on the market.
Since everyone has differing shapes, sizes and comfort levels it is important to give careful considering to any form of chastity device before purchasing. Here we will go through differing chastity devices, pros and cons, and the differences in materials.
Hopefully by the end of this article you’ll be able to make a more informed decision.
What is a Male Chastity Device?
A male chastity device is a device that restricts the wearers ability to get an erection.
There are many variants of this device. Some will be cages, others will be bent at acute angles. But their purpose remains the same – preventing erections.
Prevention of erections means that stimulation of the penis is not accessible, and therefore a man is unlikely to achieve sexual release.
We do hate to blow the secret here.
But there are multiple ways in which a male could obtain sexual release, and even climax. Despite being subjected to chastity.
He could engage in prostate stimulation. Or the body will provide nocturnal emissions (wet dreams) to prevent the build of semen and fluid. But in either situation he may be subjected to pain and torment through his inability to obtain an erection through the device.
Not all devices are the same
Nor should they be considered the same despite them all having the same fundamental purpose of orgasm denial.
We’ll begin by exploring some of the materials and the advantages and disadvantages of these materials.
Types of Devices for Male Chastity Play
Leather Chastity Cages
Most people don’t think of leather when it comes to chastity cages. But leather is the most accessible of cock cages and some of the easiest and most comfortable to use.
Leather chastity cages are considered to be entry level cages as they are both lightweight, and durable. If something goes wrong then they can be removed during an emergency. They are not always completely made of leather.
What they might use, is a leather cock ring, some leather straps to hold it in place. And then a small steel cage either along the shaft, or at the end of the shaft to prevent erections.
Leather cockrings still leave the penis open to access and stimulation but they will prevent erections.
One of the most common types of leather chastity cage are similar to the Stallion Guard.
In this the leather cock cage will restrain the penis by having leather wrap around the base and the balls to hold it in place. But prevent erections through a locking steel cage that is placed over the end of the shaft, and over the head of the penis.
The cage is very simple, very open and will create pressure on a semi-erect cock thereby restricting one’s ability to obtain a full erection.
Male leather chastity may also come in the form of a belt, which can utilize both a cock cage, and an ass plug which can also be locked in.
Leather is Porous and Difficult to Clean
I remind people that leather is a porous material and can be difficult to clean.
If you’re looking at a leather cock cage please see our cleaning and hygiene section. Ensure that you’re prolonging the life of this particular type of cock cage to the best of its ability.
Don’t want to see you with something that’s going to conk out at an inopportune moment and accidentally release your sub!
Leather cock cages will have a little bit of stretch in them. Particularly useful for people that do not like the idea of steel rings around the base of the penis.
Silicone Cock Cages
They were brought out to fill in the disadvantages of leather, whilst still maintaining all the original advantages. Silicone is durable, forgiving and has a slight amount of flex to it.
These chastity devices were first brought out in 2009 by Swiss company Bird locked. Since then there have been several variations of the silicone cage.
Advantages of a Silicone Cage
The advantages of the silicone cage is that it is soft and flexible. It will warm quickly to body temperature. Owing to the notion that silicone is non-porous it’s not going to absorb any bacteria.
When silicone cages first came out it was hoped that they would be penned as the ultimate in chastity devices and in many cases they are.
Soft, flexible, conforming and incredibly durable.
They come in two variants which sees one type as a solid piece, and the second type with a removable back ring.
Silicone is lighter even then their plastic variants. But it should be noted that silicone can be grippy and can cause irritation if the device is too tight. This can be combated with a light coating of talc powder.
In an emergency, silicone rings can be cut with a pair of scissors. Silicone can also be purchased in a variety of unique and fun colors. So, if you wanted something that was a little more fun and exciting than other designs go with silicone.
Many chastity devices now come with penis plugs for extra sensations or drain tubes/pee through for long time wear
Steel Cock Cages
Basically what you think of when you turn your attention to cock cages.
Steel is an extremely durable material and probably one of the most difficult to get out. Indeed, there are even steel devices which have their locks hidden to prevent them from being bolt cutter opened!
There are differing types of steel though, and it is important to note that not all steel cages are the same.
You will find that some steel cages are made from medical grade surgical steel. Others will simply use a chrome coating which will degrade over time.
Do Your Research
There are a wide variety of steel cock cages. Some of them will be an actual cage. Others will be an acutely angled elongated tube in order to prevent erections.
With such a wide variety of steel ones out there, it is important to make sure that you’re getting one that truly stands out and fits your needs.
Steel can be a beautiful material to work with, fully customizable, and the end results can be simply stunning.
Remember Steel is Not Forgiving
It will be cold to the touch and it’s not a forgiving material. You will need to pay careful attention to the size to ensure that you’re not causing any harm.
Cock Cages with Penis Plugs
These are becoming more and more popular as a result of the extra sensations that they can give.
Often a keyholder will demand that her man in chastity masturbate when released with the plug still inserted in the urethra. That will give an orgasm often described as ‘Cumming Inside Out’.
Materials of cock cages can Vary.
Each have their own advantages and disadvantages.
Metal cock cages are the most durable, and the most difficult to get out of. But they are considered to be the heaviest. So, if you’re looking for something that will accommodate an active lifestyle then this is probably not going to be the one for you.
You have an active lifestyle, engage in sports, or even wear tighter pants and want something to be more discreet. Perhaps then consider the silicone cages as these will best fit what you’re after.
Cock Cage Selection is an Important Decision
More often than not you’re going to make a few mistakes with them. Have patience. Eventually you’ll be able to find the perfect cock cage that best fits you and your lifestyle.