Talking about your kinks and sexual fantasies is an important part of any relationship. Whether you’re into widely accepted things like being blindfolded or lightly spanked or into something a little more extreme, it’s still not always an easy conversation to have. If you don’t communicate with your partner, not only could you be missing out on a lot of fun together (assuming they’re into the same stuff as you), but it could also lead to frustrations, resentment and even cheating.
Everyone deserves to have their sexual needs met, but what happens if your partner is not on the same page as you? VR porn videos could be a great compromise for both parties, a place where you can experiment without shame or judgement and where both of you get what you need.
Have you discovered your kinks yet?
Let’s start at the beginning though, have you even discovered what your own sexual fantasies are yet?
Sometimes we don’t know what we might like until we try it or see it, but what if you think you might be into that you’re not comfortable trying in real life yet? Maybe the thought of going to a BDSM party excites you but you’re not confident enough to go on your own, or you like the idea of a gang bang but wouldn’t even know where to start finding so many people who would be into it too (not exactly a subtle thing to ask at your next company Christmas party, right?).
Eventually, if this is something you see yourself getting into, you’ll find the right people to connect with and parties to go to. But if you’re just starting out, the thought of trying something taboo could be rather intimidating. This is where the wonderful world of virtual reality can be of great help.
Imaging fulfilling your sexual needs and desires in a safe environment that is free from judgement and where you can feel comfortable expressing yourself in ways you can’t in real life. Best part? If you don’t like it, you can always switch it off – no awkward conversations needed!
There are many types of VR porn so there’s bound to be something to satisfy your desires. The way it works is like this – you put on a headset (you can even get them under 10$ these days) and find a VR movie you would like to watch. You will then see yourself either from a POV (point of view) perspective or from a voyeuristic angle and everything around you will look as close to real-life as the technology allows for. Compared to the “flat” experience of regular porn, where you feel separate from the action, virtual reality will give you an immersive experience where you’ll actually feel like you’re part of the scenario of your choosing.
If your partner isn’t into the same things as you
It happens, we don’t always fall in love with people who have the same kinks and fetishes, but if both of you are willing to compromise a little, then there are ways you can make it work. Have an open chat with them about your desires and find their comfort levels.
Imagine this scenario – you are very much into the idea of being dominated by a strong and aggressive dominatrix, but your partner is a bit on the shy side and can’t bring herself to play the part. Maybe you’ve even tried to do it but she just bursts out laughing every time she tries to put her “serious” face on – has that ever happened to you?
Let’s try to make it work in virtual reality. You could put on a video where a sexy dominatrix is taking advantage of you, and your partner can help you out with the physical aspect of it. For example, if the virtual dominatrix is using nipple clamps on you, your partner could put some on you at the exact same time in real life. Or if the virtual dominatrix is giving you a handjob, your partner could mimic what’s happening on the screen without feeling embarrassed about being watched.
It could even lead to your partner enjoying the process and be willing to experiment more with you in the future. Virtual reality can be a great bridge to combining your fantasies.
There are limitations to VR porn for the time being as it’s still a relatively new technology, but the future of it has a lot of potential. Perhaps one day you will actually be able to upload a virtual version of yourself into the virtual world and move around freely, giving the experience an even more realistic feel.