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Male Sex Toys

When it comes to male sex toys the industry has revolutionised the amount of options men have now, they are undeniably spoilt for choice! When choosing a male toy it is hard to choose, every article or website tries to convince you every toy is the best, so how do you choose? I’m going to help you narrow it down and talk about a variety of male toys that all serve a purpose, and that sole purpose is to please you!

What’s involved?

Now let’s start with what owning a male toy involves! First of all, obviously a lot of fun and self pleasure! But you also need to care for your male toy. Some male toys need to use a toy cleaner and revitalising powder. The Fleshlight company make a great refresh powder. It’s important to invest in a refresh powder because you want your new best friend to stay new for as long as possible! You don’t want it becoming sticky, smelly and worn out. A fleshlight toy cleaner will get rid of any leftover lube residue or bacteria from your penis, it’s an important part of your sexual health to make sure you are always using cleaner after use of toys.

Till death do us part or dine and dash?

Being that there is a variety of mens toys, some are built to last and some are designed to be used once. Before buying a male toy, think about how often you masturbate and what you’d be hoping to get out of it. Do you want it to vibrate? Do you want it to be for stamina training? Or, simply just to give your hand a break! Be sure to add a warming lube to the mix (Wicked have an amazing water based warming lube) it will give it the real wet pussy feel.


Tenga are an amazing, innovative company from Japan. They are solely a male masturbation company so they really know what they are talking about when it comes to male toys. This is where the question of forever or dine and dash comes in to play, Tenga have a range of single use masturbators and long life bators. The single use bator, Tenga Soft Touch Cup, comes pre lubed and ready to go, you just use it and then dispose of it once you’re finished! Super simple. It comes in a cooling and heating lubed setting. They also have a range of built to last toys, the most popular being the Tenga Zero Flip Hole which is a vibrating and sunctioning masurbator. It’s considered a luxury male toy, the reason being it’s beautiful sleek design, and strong functions. They’re bound to make any males toes curl! They have a range of cheaper resuable toys such as U.S. Tenga (a larger size for average-larger sized men) and Tenga Air Tech (uses a newly developed air suction for extra pleasure. So it’s safe to say Tenga will have someone to enhance your masturbating life.


Fleshlight are the pioneers of mens toys. They brought out the first male toy, and really set the standard. The great thing about Fleshlight is you have a choice of a mouth, vagina or anal opening. They’re also super discreet because of the large torch appearance they give off. The joy’s of Fleshlight also include the “pick a pornstar” vibe, if you’ve ever wanted to fuck a certain pornstar, Fleshlight gives you that option with their various molds of real pornstars pussy’s. If that doesn’t excite you, then think of using your masturbator with your real life partner! Fleshlight has a variety of clear bators, such as Fleshlight Quickshot or Fleshlight Ice. The reason these are so perfect for couples use is because of the clear look they have, you and your partner will have the visual stimulation of watching your penis be stroked, and love how easy and fun it can make a basic hand job!


Kiiro are an innovative new company on the block, they have some amazing app technology involved. The Kiiro male bator has pornhub connectivity, meaning you can connect your device to your phone and it’ll recreate the speed of which the male pornstar is thrusting into the female star. The Kiiro can also give off the same amount of sensation as the star is getting, so for example if he is only halfway into her vagina only half of your penis will get given sensation from the toy. Isn’t that exciting?! Kiiro also have an amazing couples set, it includes a female g spot wand and male masturbator. The absolutely amazing thing about this set is it comes with all the same connectivity technology as the pornhub stimulation, if your girlfriend is using the wand you will only feel sensation as far as she inserts it! Talk about long distance relationship heaven!

Hopefully this has given you some insight and answers into the world of male toys! The list doesn’t just end at Kiiro, Fleshlight and Tenga. The Oh Zone Adult stores have so many options for males, and couples alike. Choosing a male toy shouldn’t be hard, it should be fun and create a new spark in your solo or partnered sex life! When choosing a male toy there is no one size fits all approach, go with what you feel is right for you, not claimed “the best” by a website you’ve come across on the net! Do some research, get all the right products and you’re on your way to a happier life!

6 Red Flags to Watch out For in Your BDSM Relationship

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Trust is crucial in any relationship. This goes double for BDSM arrangements due to their specific nature. Just because BDSM relationships are about exploration and sexual expression doesn’t mean there aren’t limitations. Instead, the BDSM community has its own set of rules. If you’re interested in entering the submissive dating world, you need to know the red flags when looking for a dominant. By understanding them, you’ll be able to avoid dominants who aren’t in the BDSM world for the right reasons.

They don’t believe in a safe word

If you talk to a dom who doesn’t believe in using a safeword or ignores your safeword, run. This is someone who doesn’t respect the basics of BDSM and can cause severe damage to you. If your dom continues after you’ve said your safeword, you need to find another dominant. Of course, you should talk about it after the session, and try to figure out what happened first. However, a safeword is designed to protect the sub from acts that go beyond their personal boundaries. If your dom isn’t respecting your wishes, then they’re breaking your trust in them.

They think you need to be broken

This is one of the most common and well known red flags. Some doms have the idea that their subs need to be broken; similar to how you’d tame a wild animal. They believe in order for the sub to properly obey them, they need to break and remold their submissive entirely. This can be a huge red flag.

If your dom wants to “break you down,” and if you consent to this, they need to have a plan of how they’re going to build you back up again. The plan needs to be concrete and focus on building confidence in you. If a dom has never done this before or refuses to talk about their previous subs, then that’s a sign their experiences with breaking people down didn’t work too well.

They exclude you from the BDSM community

There’s a huge difference between being controlling and being jealous. We can all be a little jealous; however, being controlling is an entirely different thing. If your dom is trying to control you by preventing you from speaking to other people in the BDSM community, they aren’t a real dom. The BDSM community exists for like-minded people to connect and create relationships. If your dom isn’t allowing you to do that, then you need a new dom.

Prevent you from using social media

“Social Media Blocking” is a relatively new red flag, but is equally dangerous as the rest on our list. Social media blocking is when all communications (texts, Whatsapp, emails, Facebook, etc.) go through your dom. As a sub, they don’t allow you any private communication; everything needs to go through them first. This behavior is extremely controlling as they don’t want you to meet anyone else. If they’re controlling how you communicate, they’re also deciding who you communicate with. In other words, they slowly remove people from your life.

They don’t see you as a person

Regardless if you’re a dom or sub, you’re a person. It doesn’t matter if you’re roleplaying or being whipped, you’re still a human being with rights. If a dom tries to take your basic rights away from you; preventing you from speaking your opinion, then this is something you need to look into. Just because you enjoy being submissive, doesn’t mean you’re less of a person.

They don’t follow the agreed rules

Like we said before, BDSM isn’t a free-for-all; instead, it has specific rules for both subs and doms to follow. Of course, each relationship has its agreed rules as well. These rules ensure both you and your dom are on the same page. However, if your dom isn’t following the rules, then this is a red flag. The rules symbolize respect for the relationship and safety. If a dom is deciding to change the rules without your knowledge, that’s a problem. By breaking the rules, it’s clear they don’t respect you as a sub.

If you notice one of these red flags in your BDSM relationship, it doesn’t mean you need to break up right away. But it does mean you need to communicate with your partner and pay more attention to the relationship. If the red flags continue or become worse, you’ll need to decide whether or not the relationship is worth it. When looking at the red flags, listen to your gut. What is it telling you? If you have a feeling that something isn’t right, that’s because it isn’t.

Can Cuckold Dating Actually Help Your Marriage?

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Being married to someone for many years can make your sex life a little bit boring and uninspiring. People who have been together for more than 20 years usually don’t feel the same level of sexual attraction they felt at the beginning of their relationship. That’s why some of them are trying to reignite the flame in their bedroom by using various sex toys and trying different fetishes, cuckold fantasy included. In case you don’t know, a cuckold is a husband of an adulterous wife. However, in a modern cuckold fantasy, a cuckold is a man who enjoys watching his wife having sex with another man. A lot of married couples have managed to revive their sex life by trying this fetish which might encourage you to do the same thing if you have problems in the bedroom. However, before you start seeking cuckold partners, we should first answer a very important question – can cuckold dating actually help your marriage?

Seeing Your Woman With Another Man Will Arouse You

It’s safe to say that rekindling the passion and rediscovering the feelings of arousal is not an easy and simple thing to do when you’ve been with someone for more than 20 years. You know your wife’s body and moves so well, which means nothing she does can surprise you. Naturally, this is not a good thing in the bedroom and you can fix it by watching your wife have sex with another man. This may seem like a drastic measure, but why not give it a shotif nothing else works for you? Seeing your woman from this new perspective will show you how beautiful and sensual she really is.

Watching Her Have Sex With Someone Else Can Be Very Educational

If we’re being completely honest and real, a lot of men think that they know all there is to know about sex. They consider themselves to be great lovers, but in reality, most of them don’t know how to please a woman. So, if you’re not too proud, you should try being a cuckold because this unique sexual experience will provide you with a chance to see what your wife likes and dislikes in bed. This type of education can be quite useful and help you enjoy more satisfying sex with your significant other.

This Can Boost the Woman’s Confidence and Inspire Her to Be Better in Bed

The cuckold fetish is usually all about the man and his attempt to rediscover his passion and feelings of arousal. However, it can be very good for the woman as well. This type of sex can boost the woman’s confidence and motivate her to be better in the bedroom. The fact that some other man wants her badly will make her feel more confident and self-assured during sex. Also, she will want to put on a show for you and that’s why she’ll have to acquire some new skills.

Cuckold Fetish Will Help You to Be More Honest with Each Other

Once you set aside your pride and jealousy, you will see that this type of arrangement is something that could really benefit your communication in the relationship. Most couples stop sharing their intimate sexual desires with their partners after being married for a long time. However, after trying the cuckold fetish, you won’t be shy anymore and you will be able to be more honest with each other when it comes to sex and other erotic pleasures. You will be more relaxed and straightforward not just in the bedroom, but also in other important aspects of your life. If anything, this experience will make you more courageous.

It Will Make You Less Judgmental When It Comes to Fetishes and Kinky Sex

Most people consider fetishes and kinky sex as something that shouldn’t be enjoyed in marriage. However, this type of narrow-minded attitude is usually the main reason why married people have boring and uninspiring sex lives. So, if you don’t want to have this problem in your marriage, you have to be less judgmental. A good cuckold experience is something that can help you with that. Watching your wife have sex with another man or being watched by your husband will help you see that you can enjoy many other kinky things that you used to consider forbidden and shameful. This new positive attitude will certainly make your sex life much better and save your marriage. All in all, if you’re not satisfied with the sex you’re having with your spouse, you should probably try cuckolding.

Kinky Times In Penrith!

My partner and I are quite new to the Penrith area as we have just moved here. We are a very kinky couple being into orgasm denial, chastity games and urethral sex toys. We were well known regulars at our last adult toy shop, so having to pick a new shop was almost as hard as picking a new house!!

My husband was scouting all of the adult stores in Penrith and went to 2 others before he came across the adult lifestyle center called Ohzone, he must’ve been impressed because he called me shortly after he went in and said he was leaving but we would both need to come back that evening to check it out. We parked in the Ohzone designated parking out the back of the store which has a nice discreet rear entrance. It was nice as there’s a slight chance you’ll get any parking along the street out front.

When we arrived I could see why he was so smitten, the store was in immaculate condition and packed with stock. When you look around the store you can see a specific layout of the products that makes it very easy to navigate through the copious amounts of toys. There was a wide range of lingerie and lubricants which I find can be quite lacking in some stores compared to the amount of toys so it was nice to see more stock in those areas as well.

The staff were a major highlight of the store, I love to ask questions so to have someone that was able to answer every single question with ease and professionalism was fantastic. The staff obviously put a lot of work into their product knowledge and the maintenance of the store which was really evident. The smell of the store is also something to comment on, the staff had essential oils burning in a tea light holder and it was so good that I just had to buy one for myself!! I actually got a 3 pack of the oils so I could try all the different scents.

With the amount of toys that the store carries you could build a maze and get lost in it, the toys are stacked from wall to wall. There’s a lot of variety in the toys ranging from beginner kits to expert level machines at all ranges of price. The DVD room is my husband’s favourite section in the store, our last shop didn’t have a room full of DVDs it only had a folder to flip through so he loved being able to hold the case in his hand and read the descriptions on the back. They also had a DVD exchange program which we thought was a brilliant idea and we’ll be getting a lot more DVDs now because of it.

They had the most amazing collection of BDSM gear. It was extensive to keep it succinct. Surgical steel sex toys, penis plugs, cock rings all shiny and sexy. There was also enough leather there to have killed a herd of cows but the best thing of all was their electro sex range. This ‘shocking’ sex is usually expensive and some of our trips have blown both our weekly wages but the range was terrific and the pricing the best I had ever seen.

The only issue I can find with the store is that it has too much stock and I spent way too much money!! Luckily ZIPPAY is available so you don’t have to spend all the money at once and can pay it off over time. We absolutely loved the store and staff and will be coming back for more and more, get used to our faces Penrith Oh zone!!

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The Benefits of Getting a Happy Ending Massage

One of the most popular massages offered by brothels is the happy ending massage. This type of massage involves a relaxing sensual massage that finishes with a satisfying climax. While many people seek happy ending massages for the sexual satisfaction they provide, it’s been proven that they can also have a range of benefits for health and wellbeing. Read on to discover some of the various benefits of getting a happy ending massage in Melbourne.


One of the main reasons why people visit brothels is for adult relaxation services. While a range of different massage types are typically offered for relaxation, there’s none as relaxing as a happy ending massage. Some types of adult massage can leave you feeling unsatisfied and wanting more, but with a happy ending massage, you’re able to walk out of your massage at the end feeling completely relaxed.

Stress Relief

Whether caused by tight deadlines at work or family problems, stress can have a detrimental effect on a person’s life. Not only can it interfere with sleep and day-to-day activities, but it can also cause health problems such as high blood pressure and reduced immune system function. Fortunately, getting a happy ending massage in Melbourneis a great way to relieve any stress you may be experiencing in your life. Combining a soothing massage with the added bonus of a happy ending, a happy ending massage is sure to leave you feeling relaxed and free of stress.

Orgasm Denial Is Possible

Contrary to popular belief, happy ending massages do not necessarily end with an orgasm. Everything boils down to what you discuss with the masseuse. If you live a chaste lifestyle and you do not want to reach climax because it is against your beliefs, the massage can be quite empowering. This is because of the power associated with stopping everything. You can just let the masseuse do everything and then, when you want to, you can stop the massage. Orgasm is denied and you are instantly empowered by a simple NO. This makes your mind stronger since you are in complete control. The experience is always tailored for you.

Improved Sleep

If you suffer from insomnia or other sleep issues, you’ll know how frustrating it can be to lie awake all night trying to get some much-needed sleep. While medications can be prescribed by a doctor to promote better sleep, these often come with risks and side effects, so it’s a good idea to first try natural methods to improve sleep. One such method that can vastly improve sleep is a happy ending massage. Thanks to the stress relieving and relaxing benefits a happy ending massage in Melbourne can provide, you can experience a significant improvement in the amount and quality of sleep, meaning you’ll find it easier to both get to sleep and stay asleep without having to resort to medication.

Boost to Overall Health

Looking after one’s health is important, but sometimes it can be hard to find the time needed to do so. Fortunately, a happy ending massage offers an effective way of providing a boost to overall health. General health benefits of a happy ending massage in Melbourne can include increased body healing time, slowed down heart rate, lowered blood pressure, improved circulation, increased flexibility and range of motion, enhanced immune response, and even improved posture. A happy ending massage can also be beneficial by reducing stress which could otherwise lead to negative health effects. With so many benefits for health, sleep, stress relief and relaxation, it’s no surprise that so many people seek out happy ending massages. Offered by reputable brothels across Melbourne, this is one massage that’s sure to leave you feeling happy and relaxed.