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Male Sex Toys

When it comes to male sex toys the industry has revolutionised the amount of options men have now, they are undeniably spoilt for choice! When choosing a male toy it is hard to choose, every article or website tries to convince you every toy is the best, so how do you choose? I’m going to help you narrow it down and talk about a variety of male toys that all serve a purpose, and that sole purpose is to please you!

What’s involved?

Now let’s start with what owning a male toy involves! First of all, obviously a lot of fun and self pleasure! But you also need to care for your male toy. Some male toys need to use a toy cleaner and revitalising powder. The Fleshlight company make a great refresh powder. It’s important to invest in a refresh powder because you want your new best friend to stay new for as long as possible! You don’t want it becoming sticky, smelly and worn out. A fleshlight toy cleaner will get rid of any leftover lube residue or bacteria from your penis, it’s an important part of your sexual health to make sure you are always using cleaner after use of toys.

Till death do us part or dine and dash?

Being that there is a variety of mens toys, some are built to last and some are designed to be used once. Before buying a male toy, think about how often you masturbate and what you’d be hoping to get out of it. Do you want it to vibrate? Do you want it to be for stamina training? Or, simply just to give your hand a break! Be sure to add a warming lube to the mix (Wicked have an amazing water based warming lube) it will give it the real wet pussy feel.


Tenga are an amazing, innovative company from Japan. They are solely a male masturbation company so they really know what they are talking about when it comes to male toys. This is where the question of forever or dine and dash comes in to play, Tenga have a range of single use masturbators and long life bators. The single use bator, Tenga Soft Touch Cup, comes pre lubed and ready to go, you just use it and then dispose of it once you’re finished! Super simple. It comes in a cooling and heating lubed setting. They also have a range of built to last toys, the most popular being the Tenga Zero Flip Hole which is a vibrating and sunctioning masurbator. It’s considered a luxury male toy, the reason being it’s beautiful sleek design, and strong functions. They’re bound to make any males toes curl! They have a range of cheaper resuable toys such as U.S. Tenga (a larger size for average-larger sized men) and Tenga Air Tech (uses a newly developed air suction for extra pleasure. So it’s safe to say Tenga will have someone to enhance your masturbating life.


Fleshlight are the pioneers of mens toys. They brought out the first male toy, and really set the standard. The great thing about Fleshlight is you have a choice of a mouth, vagina or anal opening. They’re also super discreet because of the large torch appearance they give off. The joy’s of Fleshlight also include the “pick a pornstar” vibe, if you’ve ever wanted to fuck a certain pornstar, Fleshlight gives you that option with their various molds of real pornstars pussy’s. If that doesn’t excite you, then think of using your masturbator with your real life partner! Fleshlight has a variety of clear bators, such as Fleshlight Quickshot or Fleshlight Ice. The reason these are so perfect for couples use is because of the clear look they have, you and your partner will have the visual stimulation of watching your penis be stroked, and love how easy and fun it can make a basic hand job!


Kiiro are an innovative new company on the block, they have some amazing app technology involved. The Kiiro male bator has pornhub connectivity, meaning you can connect your device to your phone and it’ll recreate the speed of which the male pornstar is thrusting into the female star. The Kiiro can also give off the same amount of sensation as the star is getting, so for example if he is only halfway into her vagina only half of your penis will get given sensation from the toy. Isn’t that exciting?! Kiiro also have an amazing couples set, it includes a female g spot wand and male masturbator. The absolutely amazing thing about this set is it comes with all the same connectivity technology as the pornhub stimulation, if your girlfriend is using the wand you will only feel sensation as far as she inserts it! Talk about long distance relationship heaven!

Hopefully this has given you some insight and answers into the world of male toys! The list doesn’t just end at Kiiro, Fleshlight and Tenga. The Oh Zone Adult stores have so many options for males, and couples alike. Choosing a male toy shouldn’t be hard, it should be fun and create a new spark in your solo or partnered sex life! When choosing a male toy there is no one size fits all approach, go with what you feel is right for you, not claimed “the best” by a website you’ve come across on the net! Do some research, get all the right products and you’re on your way to a happier life!

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Intimacy is the best place and the best time for expression. Finding a partner with whom be free is the shortest way to self-discovery, and if one is not allowed to express freely with the other, then it means intimacy is not real.

Bondage Sado-masochism (BDSM) sounds like a tabu, like dark practice your ex is probably trying out with his new partner. And it’s not. Just like sex is a regular thing, a regular action upon which so much meaning has been bestowed, BDSM is also a normal thing.

It’s just not that popular as it’s seen as a porno-practice, something for weirdos and sexually curious people. And this is what we’re talking today: BDSM, and with a special emphasis on male chastity, and why The Male Chastity Blog readers should love The Adultsmart Lifestyle Blog.

The AdultsmartLifestyle Blog is a no-BS site where writers are honest, frank, and open about a healthy lifestyle for men. And a healthy lifestyle includes a healthy sexual life and sexual drive. With sex toys.

And the Male Chastity Blog is what you should be reading if you want to finally spice up your nights in bed. Or, you know, in the kitchen, the living room, the car, the sofa, the bath, the woods. Whatever you like.

The slave and the mistress

Chastity play –also referred to as chastity couples- engage in a game where the girl, dressed in sexy leather and high heels, is the mean mistress, while the boy, dress in nothing, is the slave.

The couple makes a silent contract to make their foreplay fantastic: the boy cannot make any move on the girl until she says so. He is a slave, a naughty little slave, and he must obey as she licks her body, rubs her back with her beautiful feet, kisses his lips, and teases Mr. Johnson.

It all grows better –and harder- with a chastity belt: a penis cage that keeps it away from the action. The mistress is free to tease it until it explodes and, as she keeps the key of the chastity belt, she is the one to decide when to set Mr. Jhonson free.

What better toy than a chastity belt, right? It’s just the perfect excuse to get all kinds of jobs. Fantasies fulfilled.

General rules of chastity play
Chastity couples is a way of living that may or may not go beyond the bedroom. Some couples only engage in this in special moments, while others take this as the philosophy of their relationship.

It’s your call. And here it is:

The slave obeys his Mistress until the Mistress says otherwise. In the body, heart, mind, and soul, the slave belongs to her.

The subdued has a safeword from when things get too heavy for him, and he accepts the responsibility of using it when necessary. The Mistress has to respect the use of the safeword, and if the condition arises, the Mistress will determine the appropriate course of action.

The slave’s body is always readily available for the Mistress, and the slave knows that his girl orders how he should use his body with others. So, in case of playing with other people, there are a set of rules the slave must obey to respect his master.

The slave demonstrates his acceptance of his role beyond intimacy moments: as a way of life, his role and service are 24/7 in the places and tasks the Mistress has set for him.

The Mistress may also hurt the slave to please herself without any reason or warning. The slave knows this and acknowledges that Mistress can use his body, mind, hear, and soul in whatever way she seems to like it. However, Mistress has agreed to not hurt the slave in any way that may require attention from a third-party.

The slave can cry, beg, scream, and plea, but he accepts that this painful expression will not change the way Mistress treats him. He also knows there’s a gag around Mistress can use when she gets tired of his disrespect.

The slave will always be honest to his master and will answer any question directly and without hesitation, especially when it’s about his emotional or physical condition. Furthermore, Mistress expects slave will speak his mind about things that bother him, however, this does not mean slave has a permission to whine.

Concerts are to be shared respectfully and politely. Then, Mistress will judge and take the actions she thinks necessary.

The slave will address his Mistress as “Mistress” or “Ma’am” with love and respect. Meanwhile, Mistress might give his slave “free periods” under which he can express freely with no punishments applied. During this free times, the slave will still address Mistress with love and respect.

Public and private rules of conduct

In private, the slave must greet Mistress wearing his collar, wrist restraints, and a shirt that belongs to Mistress. He must not wear underclothes in her presence unless she says otherwise.

As long as Mistress is home, the slave remains whatever she thinks is appropriate for him and wear whatever she decides. And as the slave leaves the room, the must explains his reasons.

In public, the slave can only participate in the activities the Mistress has approved, and act in such a way that doesn’t call the attention of anyone else. He calls Mistress by his name and dress as he likes for public scenarios, but still seek approval of the clothing he wears to go out.

The chastity agreement cannot interfere with anyone’s career. The slave must work honestly and hard for the betterment and honor of both him and his owner.

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A lifestyle for healthy couples

The Chastity Blog and the Adult Lifestyle Blog can get much from each other. A chastity belt is the first step towards chastity play. If you don’t like all of this rules – like, for example, you like being a man and being in charge and not behave like a little B***h – you could choose to engage in this kind of games on special occasions.

For example, who’s to say you and your partner wouldn’t enjoy being Mistress and Slave during your anniversary? Maybe he deserves punishment for such basic gifts or for the time he was mean to your mother.

And with a chastity belt, man, you can sit down and enjoy your girl teasing and edging you until you have accumulated so much drive that you feel ready to break the bed and sleep for two days straight.