Does the thought of submission tickle your fancy? Giving somebody control over your body arouses you? Does giving somebody control arouse you? If it does, try adding a Sado Chastity Device to your bag of goodies.
Sado Chastity – What is the Purpose of a Chastity Device?
The application of a chastity belt is an indication of the control/dominance of the “key-holder” over the wearer’s sexual activities.
By wearing the chastity belt the submissive/slave accepts surrender of control over their sexual desires to the other partner. Who may grant permission to the wearer to engage in sexual activity by unlocking the chastity device.
Role of the Dominant
The dominant may decide when, where, how often, and even if, the submissive is allowed their sexual release. This is a great element of control in a power exchange.
Controlling of ones sexual arousal, release and even orgasms can be both empowering and a lot of fun for each of the people involved.
Role of the Submissive
The wearer of the belt or chastity is known as the sub/slave in a BDSM relationship. This is a part of the wider practice of tease & denial.
Some people claim it increases submissiveness in their men. Other people claim it gets males to be more in tune with their emotions, feelings and state of mind.
It has often been reported that when worn the chastity belt frequently reminds the slave of the sexual frustration they could experience.
There’s actually scientific research that’s been placed in this with the effects that an orgasm has on the chemical balance of an individual. And how that can in turn affect their personality, and their day to day life.
What do Sado Chastity Devices Do?
Most belt designs cannot prevent wearers from physically touching their genitals but they do usually prevent masturbation.
Although devices may hold the penis firm, they can be loose. And even though sex is impossible, it is possible for manual stimulation even to orgasm but often resulting in a ruined orgasm.
The most effective masturbation prevention requires design features that incorporate piercings or a completely enclosed chastity device.
This set includes 1 silicone cage/tube – 3 graduated size silicone back rings. 2 plastic cinch straps. 5 individually numbered plastic seal locks. 1 padlock with 2 keys. Ring measurements are: – 2” diameter (52mm) – 1.75” diameter (47mm) – 1.5” diameter (41mm).
How to apply your brand new Sado Chastity Device
Please ensure you set up your device correctly. A poorly set up chastity device could result in a serious injury.
At first look whilst still in the box my thoughts were it was going to be an easy application with the device. But once I took everything out of the box there were heaps of parts and I was a little confused on how to set it up.
All you need is your shaft tube, ring, cinch strap with white clip and padlock/numbered plastic lock.
1 – Using the Sado Chastity Device
Apply a small amount of water based lubricant onto yourself or to the device. This is to create easy application due too the product being completely silicone.
I recommend a trim/shave to help lower the risk of pinching whilst using the device. Then grab the ring with your preferred measurement around your genital area. Take out the small white clip for the lock seal.
Step 2
Grab 1 of the 2 Cinch straps and push the white clip through one of the end holes. Begin to thread the cinch strap through 1 of the top slots of the chastity tube.
And the begin to wrap around the back ring whilst heading through the remaining 2 slots. After you have reached the full way around back to the other side attach the cinch strap to the white clip again.
3 – Using Sado Chastity Devices
Get out the padlock or numbered plastic locks and lock it up!
Why use a Sado Chastity Device
The Sado’s chamber would have to be one of the most comfortable chastity devices I have worn. Definitely have to be the most comfortable I have been able to sleep in with no metal spikes or pieces to give pinching.
It’s great for comfort whilst knowing you are still securely locked up.
With great size ventilation holes perfect for cleaning without removal. This chamber is designed perfectly with a soft silky silicone for movement & comfort. In favour of the slave/sub with no pins or sharp edges for any unwanted pinching.
Are Adult Toys and Erotic Sex Toys Safe to Use?
Sex is one of the most controversial topics in the history of mankind. For a very long time, this was considered as a taboo topic.
Anyone who was caught talking about it can experience punishment depending on the culture, laws and traditions. It is also considered impolite to talk about it in public and anyone who does it should be publicly disgraced.
When used in literature, it is often wrapped in allegory and there were a lot of myths that were marketed to be true. Even the “porn” in the ancient world mostly consists of fully clothed women showing their ankles. Some examples are in this link.
Society’s views on sex may not have changed completely, but we are getting there.
There are a lot of people who are more liberal with their views regarding sexuality in general. They can now discuss it in public especially amongst friends.
There is still some sort of awkwardness when this topic is opened up with the older generation. But it would usually end up to be a war with comparisons.
Nowadays, even women have more to say regarding this controversial topic. It has sparked a lot of movements in feminism as well as LGBTQ+ ideas. But it is now rather common to talk about it and there is no shame in that.
All Of Our Pleasures Combined
There are certain topics that still seem to be clouded with a lot of confusion. Sex toys, for one, are still a debated topic whether couples actually need them.
For single ones out there, this equipment can be used instead of your fingers. Most men think that lewd pictures and videos along with their hands is more than enough. It can prove the theory that men are more sexually aroused by imagery.
On the other hand, women are more into the physical aspect.
This means that most of these toys are targeted towards them, although there are others for both straight and gay men.
There is an ongoing belief that couples don’t really need these toys because they already have each other. Only those “Fifty-Five Shades Freaks” are into that.
First of all, the BDSM community acknowledges the fact that that certain piece of literature pushed them into the spotlight. They hate it. But there is nothing that they could do. Second, it is ok to explore more about your sexuality even as a couple.
Sex toys are made for fun.
But this notion is perpetualized by the fact that sex is just supposed to be for procreation not for pleasure. It is something that a lot of religious congregations have been teaching for years.
On the other hand, you have the freedom to do your own thing. If you want to add and spice up your sexual life, then go for it.
There are many sex toys in the market, and they can be divided into general types. One thing is for sure, no one can stop you from enjoying these things aside from yourself.
If you want to be freaky, then by all means do.
But there are still some doubts about sex toys, mainly considering their safefty for use. This is really an education problem. Although we are not endorsing the education of sex toys to minors, it is important that there should be some sort of PSA regarding them.
In lieu of correcting some of these wrong notions regarding sex toys, here they are and some explanation of why these are incorrect.
Some Myths Regarding Adult Sex Toys
Sex toys diminish pleasure
This can be thought of as the most common gripe against toys for sexual pleasure. It is said that using this will actually lessen the pleasure that you will have with your partner.
Your orifices or genitals will get used to this equipment and you will never seek your partner anymore.
We are confident in saying that this is false because most people would still prefer if they have another partner. It is more pleasurable to experience an actual person rather than a plastic toy because it can change from one act to another.
Spontaneity and interaction with another human makes the sex better.
It is only for women and BDSM.
As we have mentioned before, this is not really the case.
Dildos can be used by men, and those realistic ones marketed for gay men can be used by women. There should be no discrimination regarding the use of these things. It can actually be better for the people to just experiment and have fun with it.
Also, most people in the BDSM community actually welcome this kind of mindset. Not for people with control issues and psychological concerns.
In fact, it can be thought of as an art form which can be enjoyed by someone who understands it.
There is the possibility of hurting your genitals or yourself.
Now, this can be the reality if you do not know what you are doing.
As mentioned in many products, always check the label. There should be warnings and other reminders regarding proper use of the material. Also, there are guides online that can certainly help you with these concerns.
Some of these are usually focused on the electrical ones like vibrators. However, nipple clamps, dildos and handcuffs can also cause pain if they are not used properly. Make sure that the ones you are getting are made by a reputable source.
They are unnatural
This one can be the funniest, mainly because of how absurd the statement is. Yes, it is true that these materials are man-made and careless use can lead to ruin.
Saying that using them is unnatural can be a bit of a stretch. It is just to add more pleasure to an already pleasurable experience.
Let people see and experience what they like then maybe they do not have to repress what they actually want. Even though self-control should be trait of a decent human being, consensual sexual experimentation is something that anyone is open to.