Welcome fellow purveyor of kink culture, have you been a bad slave in needing proper punishment? If the answer is yes then you are in the right place. Today you will be learning how to be the ultimate slave while sexting.
Not everyone has the time or know-how in order to or access to a Pro Domme Dungeon. That is precisely what the Internet is for! Now you can talk to sex chat professionals to get your kinks met on your schedule regardless of your location.
Sexting to Become the Ultimate Slave
If it’s your first time or you’re a seasoned slave who needs to be kept in their place, sexting is the perfect digitized option for you. Work from home? How about Kink from home as well?
Let’s get into all of it in today’s five tips to be the ultimate slave through sexting with a sex chat professional using the Arousr platform.
How to Be The Ultimate Slave
There is truly nothing worse for a Domme than a male slave who is unruly, cannot submit, and refuses to follow orders. This actually defeats the point of being a submissive male.
You must always be willing to comply with the orders of your Domme at all times during your sexting session.
The thought of having someone else in full control of you for your time together is exactly what should turn you on, in order to venture down the obedient slave path with your digital Domme.
Relinquishing all control is your first step to joy and pleasure…on your Domme’s terms of course.
Funds for Fetish Fun
There is absolutely nothing worse than getting all tied up (pun intended) with your Domme in a kinky chat and running out of funds to keep it going.
Sex chat professional is on your schedule for a reason. You must be prepared with enough funds to make sure you have the most fetish fun possible in a session.
No one likes to rush a good time, make sure you have enough funds to get all your needs met. Especially as a slave, your only job is to prove to your Domme you are worthy of their time and attention.
It’s the Domme’s job to make sure you explore as many avenues of being submissive and the ultimate slave as possible.
Good general rule of thumb is based on what kind of experience you want to have.
A quickie should be anything between 5-10 minutes of your time. If your home for the night and want to really get deeply involved and explore expect 15 minutes or longer. A typical digital domme session is around 30 minutes in length.
Submission For the Ultimate Slave
It’s vital you are into this fetish play to submit. You agree to give up all control the minute you are in the presence of your Domme.
This could be for 10 minutes or one hour, no matter the time you play your role and you submit. No longer do you make the rules. It’s not your way it’s her way.
You feel a deep need to relinquish all control you have over yourself to her. No longer are you capable of making your own choices. This transition is very important in order to start enjoying your role as a sub.
Your only responsibility is to serve her needs. Domme now knows what’s best.
Ultimate Slave Tasks
Any experienced Domme will always have a plethora of tasks for her submissive to accomplish. These tasks play a pivotal role in slave training. In your sexting session you should receive a leave one task from your Domme if you have been a good slave.
If you have followed the steps above your Domme will be more than happy to offer you a task to complete. These tasks can be purely to serve your Domme’s needs (i.e paying for her manicure) or yours (allowing you to cum).
It’s up to you how good of a little bitch you can prove yourself to be in order to be deemed worthy of being given tasks. If you have spent a fair amount of time chatting with your Domme and no task is given you are always allowed to ask for one.
Just prepared to be put in your place if your Domme is not ready to give you one yet. Sometimes a contract is needed between slave and domme.
Be Open-Minded
No matter what, you must be and remain open minded in order to be a good submissive.
If you attempt to start a sexting session telling your Domme what to do you are not being submissive. A submissive is ready and willing to do absolutely anything to please their Domme. The more obscure the task, the more kinky the act of pleasure, the more fucked in the mind the better.
When you submit you are allowing yourself to no longer be closed off to new experiences.
This is by far the most important aspect of being the ultimate slave through sexting your digital Domme.
I’m Femme Fatale, writer, and model. I have a vast knowledge and affinity for Fetish culture. You can find me every week writing for Arousr. My favorite fetish is Domination.
Tips on How to Get Women to Send You Nudes
We live in a digital age, and it became quite normal for relationships to take place online in some way. Phones and computers are our strongest allies when we are currently separated from our partners. The Internet is an easy and fast way to stay in touch with them.
Popular term sexting involves sending nude pictures and videos, but only to who needs to see it. You’re so wrong if you think that exchanging intimate photos is a new invention; it dates centuries in the past, as you can see on this link.
Women are usually shy regarding this type of communication when it comes to sending nude photos. Men, however, enjoy this way of expressing love. They don’t have problems sending intimate pictures, but they are devastated when their girlfriends won’t do the same.
So they need to find a simple but effective way to get nudes from their ladies.
Don’t Go Straight to the Point
No matter how long you have been in a relationship with a girl, never feel free to ask her directly to send you her naked photos.
We live in a modern age when flirting, passion, and sex are completely normal things, but some limits must exist. But once you break through the barrier, everything will be more comfortable.
It is crucial that you first examine the things between you and your girl. Pay attention to what kind of signals she sends you. If she’s relaxed and feels comfortable with you, she’ll give you a hint she’s interested in sexting.
How ‘I bought new underwear’ sounds to you? It’s not like she asks for fashion advice from you.
Compliments, Compliments
It’s a fact that most men are not skilled with sweet talks. The answer to ‘how to get women to send you nudes’ lies just right there. You want to get her nude photos so you must give her compliments. If you don’t play well, you can say goodbye to the nudes, and probably, the girl.
Women are often insecure about themselves and their looks.
These are probably the reasons why your girl hesitates to send you even her semi-nude photo. So you have to help her build confidence. Say things like, ‘you are beautiful today,’ ‘you look so hot in (some) picture,’ etc. Show interest in her, and if the feeling is mutual, she will want you to like her even more.
And voila, you’ve got yourself a nude.
Be Unique
Girls love attention, and they especially love it when guys work around them. So, if you want her to send nudes, here’s your chance to do your best.
You can ask her to give you these photos, but do that in an unusual way. Make some small, witty gestures that should cheer up your girl.
You can write a poem, send flowers with a ‘romantic note’ (something like ‘roses are red, violets are blue, I’ll send you nudes – will you do that too?’) or spell out this question in snow or sand.
The point is to let your creativity out and do something extraordinary that will make your loved one amused. Perhaps she’ll show you her gratitude for this gesture by sending some nasty pictures.
Be Prepared for ‘NO’
Even when you do your best, there is a chance that your girl says ‘no’ to nudes. Maybe she’s afraid that anyone other than you will see those pictures, or she just doesn’t want her nudes to end up on some dubious websites, etc.
It would help if you reassured her that her intimacy is safe with you. Check how to protect in case your intimate photos leak:
Do not take her ‘NO’ as a definite rejection, especially if further communication takes place as usual.
Put your desire to stand by, and don’t bother her with asking for nudes. Give her some time, just enough for you to think of some unique way to ‘make’ her change her mind.
Two people who are in a relationship can talk about different stuff, send love notes, funny videos, memes, songs. They show how much they care for each other.
In this love correspondence, some more intimate pictures are desirable once in a while, just to spice the things up.