Getting aroused is not really important at all when I am wearing a male chastity device. It is more a mind thing in that I know I am at the mercy of my Hot Wife! I am one of those men who have been fantasizing about getting bound and dominated by my wife.
Just love that feeling of submission that clouds my mind and whole body whenever I am requesting her to unlock my Ridem Tiger so that I can go get a shower.
It is a feeling that makes me orgasm!
Before I bought my first male chastity device, I longed to be locked, loved and owned by my Wife. When I acquired it she also started enjoying satisfying my long-time fantasy.
She loved that I have had such a feeling. My Ridem Tiger has helped our sexual life a lot by bringing us closer intimately.
Wearing My Male Chastity Device causes more sexual arousal for my wife!
Whenever I am wearing my Caged Dragon or Ridem Tiger all day long, it means that I actually get more sexually aroused for my Wife because my mind always returns to the holder of my key; my Mistress; my Goddess!
Each and every time I visit the washrooms and see the cage on my genital area, I am reminded of why my body belongs to my wife.
The male chastity device is a constant reminder of my obligations to my wife.
I never forget about her at any one moment during the day.
These few years I have been wearing this device, I have been able to appreciate my wife and the pleasures she gives to my body whenever we are together, even more!
Before I started using my male chastity devices, I was so addicted to masturbation. This frustrated my wife a lot when she discovered my addiction.
She always complained why I was doing this yet she always tried to pleasure me as much as possible. So, when we decide to buy my Caged Dragon, stopping masturbation was one of the things we discussed.
At first, I would get very frustrated on being unable to touch myself as I had been used to. But with time I was able to appreciate the importance of stopping this addiction and it slowly left my mind.
My Chastity Device does not really restrict my erection.
Getting aroused is not really important at all when I am wearing a male chastity device.
But erections are natural, and when hormones are stirred up, the penis will just get erect naturally. In fact, we wear chastity devices primarily to avoid doing what we can do when an erection happens!
That is the reason why I wear a device that is always comfortable enough not to severely restrict my penis if – and when – a natural erection occurs my Caged Dragon or Ridem Tiger does not make me feel pain or any much discomfort whenever I get aroused.
The cages are made in such a way as to allow an erection to push it away from my body because the root of my penis remains outside the cage.
Regular wearing of a Male Chastity Device gives me Better Control over my body.
Regular wearing of a male chastity device and experiencing less orgasms over time means has mentally tuned me to have a better control over my other erogenous zones like the neck, nipples, ears, balls and even the anus.
Trying to maintain chastity through orgasm denial has helped me become a more tender, more sensitive, more considerate and more passionate lover.
When Wearing My Chastity Device, I have discovered that My Penis is not the only thing that matters!
I have been able to gain a better appreciation that my penis is not the only thing necessary for good sex. Have learnt to enjoy the pleasures of my own body without necessarily having an orgasm or a direct touch to my penis.
Being able to become a better lover to my Wife by discovering whole new ways to excite and arouse her body. Overall, I have discovered how my pleasure is found in my Wife’s pleasure.
Pleasuring and pleasing my woman has been my ultimate reward; a reward that has earned me a lot of release and even helped me orgasm at times!
My Male Chastity Devices have helped me become more productive.
Since I started using the Ridem Tiger and the Caged Dragon, I have been able to control my feelings. And I do not waste a lot of my time, money and energy with other women like I used to doi before.
This is not because I am only restricted from doing so but because my mind has been accustomed to only think of my Mistress and Goddess. The holder of the key to my bondage!
Whenever I travel out of town for business transactions, I only think of my Wife whenever I get aroused.
And when I am back home, I can’t wait to make love to my wife!
I have no bad reactions which are allergic whatsoever which is why I really love wearing my male chastity devices!
If you find your skin becomes irritated you can frequently use lubricants around the cock ring. This is to keep these device’s from producing to much friction against your body.
Your body will eventually get used to using the devices.
It will make you proud about your self control. You will start to behave like a grown up man while releasing maximum sexual potential on your partner.
As a partner there is no more need for you to engage in oral sex with him. He will be quite happy about the release of his sexual tension. Playing with your body and teasing you with a stronger and harder erection that will satisfy you till you fall asleep in your bed.
Its important that you measure your male chastity device correctly. You will be in wonder when your friends compliment you about your attentive and wonderful partner.
They will be jealous of your committed and strong relationship.
Once you have locked your partner’s penis with a chastity device he will become more helpful in and outside of your relationship.
He will be at your service at any time of the day and will know that the only way to release his penis is to please you.
Turned on by Wearing a Chastity Cage
If you are thinking about wearing a Chastity Cage there are hundreds of products to choose from today. Metal cages with locks, app-controlled smart devices, and many more.
Chastity kink runs the gamut from foreplay to a corresponding lifestyle. In its moderate version, the man abstains from sex by having to wear the cage for a limited period.
When taken to extremes, his partner restricts his sexual freedom by holding the keys to the cage for up to months at a time.
Male Chastity Gear – One of the Hottest Toys This Year, and Probably Next
At the beginning of this year, chastity cages made headlines for all the wrong reasons. Some men wearing smart devices found them hacked. The hackers demanded ransom to release their genitals.
It was quite unfortunate and it made a lot of people wonder why a man would want to use a cock cage, be it app controlled or not.
In fact, these cages are among the hottest new toys this year, along with vibrating testicular rings and sex dolls. Men wear cock rings while they are masturbating or during sex to enhance their sensations.
As with chastity cages, the rings let wearers experience invaluable, unbelievable feelings. Users recommend these toys openly to everyone who wants to feel something new and different.
Escaping Pressure with Male Chastity
Chastity cages help men escape the pressures of gender norms.
Unhappy with being expected to be active and perform all the time, they find solace in this kink. It’s a way to relinquish control and escape the rigid gender role and the high expectations that come with it.
This kink may be getting more popular, but it remains taboo, and its proponents aren’t readily willing to admit to having it.
The truth is that people are still afraid of male submission and female dominance.
Chastity cages are equally popular with gay and bisexual men though.
When a man is wearing a cage, he cannot touch his penis. Only the person who has the key can remove it.
This is incredibly exciting to some and cringeworthy to others. Denying orgasm can increase the sex drive and make one more focused on their sensations.
Chastity cages can play a central role in BDSM, where the master or mistress can punish the slave by denying them sex and orgasms.
The Appeal for Keyholders
This kink is obviously not for everyone. For one, it gives the master or mistress a lot of responsibility.
In some cases, a poorly set up or defective cage will present a serious risk and the keyholder must be able to take the device off immediately. That said, this gender role subversion can be very appealing to women.
There are even those who work as professional dominatrices and hold the keys to their many clients’ cages.
Some men Wear Male Chastity Devices Every Day
Men who wear chastity devices every day find them a comforting presence, not unlike a wedding band. They say being unable to use their penis and orgasm during sex makes sex a lot better.
These men appreciate the masochistic thrill of being unable to cum. Paradoxically, removing the penis from the equation or outright abstaining from sex can bring something new and exciting to your sex life.
Not only does it improve it on the whole, but also makes the orgasm extremely powerful when it does come.
It is a new, untraditional, and novel way to experience pleasure.
Wearing a chastity cage enables one to turn attention to other erogenous zones. As penal stimulation is impossible, other areas become more sensitive, like the anus and nipples.
In the need for gratification, focus is given to zones that may have been neglected before.
A man told Out Magazine that the images of men wearing cages in their natural state made an unforgettable impression on him before he got into chastity.
He realized chastity devices were much more than a sex toy, they were a way of life.
The man he hasn’t taken it off for more than a year. Sometimes he even forgets that it’s there. He urinates sitting down and the cage makes him highly aware of dripping or any other mess. It’s how he feels and thinks about himself now.
The device shouldn’t affect what you wear. He says he usually wears a thong or a jockstrap. Everything looks normal from the outside.
How Women Perceive Male Chastity Cages
Some women who practice chastity with their boyfriends or spouses will recall that things were a bit awkward at the beginning. It’s quite common for the man to express an interest, but feel embarrassed about it.
Today, there’s nothing easier than purchasing one from an online shop. Women find the device takes pressure off for them and their partners. They are able to relax and enjoy sex more.
Be Open About Your Desires
It can be hard to open up about a desire, especially if it’s on the unusual side and you feel your partner will be less than thrilled about it.
When you’re a man who wants to try a chastity cage, you’re probably struggling with every worst case scenario in your head. It’s best to weigh the stigma up against your desires and needs to see where you stand.
After all, what’s the worst thing that can happen?
Your partner refuses to try it? It’s not the end of the world. If that happens, wait for some time, then approach the idea of BDSM toys for beginners. Give your partner a chance to take things slow.
Eventually, you might get to chastity cages. It’s important not to force kinks on a partner. Without real compatibility, it’s not going to work.
Discuss the possibility of middle ground. Both of you need to be comfortable with any compromise reached.
Returning to the man who spent over a year wearing the device.
He didn’t have a partner at this time, but he was looking for one. So, he decided to be upfront about the cage because it was better than them actually seeing it when the time came and hating it.
He got completely comfortable making his kink clear with time.
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