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Vixen Anal Relaxing Gel 59ml by Fantasy Lingerie

$34.99
$34.99

Vixen's Soothing Anal Pleasure Gel desensitizing formula in 59ml bottle. Fast-acting gel with natural oils for comfort during anal play.

Key Features:

Desensitizing formula eases anal play tension within minutes

Natural oils and extracts provide body-safe comfort

Balanced numbing maintains sensation while reducing discomfort

Non-greasy texture absorbs quickly without sticky residue

Compact 59ml bottle offers discrete portability and storage

SKU: LUBE-486-NOATTRIBUTES-SHOP-NONE-76243
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Product type: Anal Lubes
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Vixen Anal Relaxing Gel 59ml by Fantasy Lingerie is a desensitising formula that eases tension during anal play, letting you relax and focus on pleasure without discomfort. The fast-acting gel works within minutes and suits anyone new to anal exploration or seeking to reduce anxiety during a session.

At a glance
  • Type: Desensitising anal gel with natural oils and plant extracts for comfort.
  • Size: 59ml bottle, compact and discreet for storage or travel.
  • Formula: Body-safe, water-based, fast-acting, absorbs quickly without greasy residue.
  • Application: Apply a small amount directly to the area and massage gently before play.
  • Compatible: Works with all water-based lubricants and anal toys.
  • Effect: Reduces sensitivity within minutes so you stay relaxed, not numb.
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A closer look

Vixen Anal Relaxing Gel 59ml by Fantasy Lingerie combines natural oils and plant extracts in a formula made to ease the physical tension that often stops people from enjoying anal play. The desensitising blend works quickly—within minutes—to relax the muscles, letting you focus on sensation rather than worry. Unlike numbing agents that dull all feeling, this gel strikes a balance: it calms tension while leaving you able to feel what matters.

The gel absorbs fast and leaves no sticky residue, so it suits both solo exploration and partnered play. Because it's water-based, it pairs smoothly with anal sex toys and standard lubricants. The 59ml bottle is small enough to tuck away discreetly but substantial enough to last through many sessions.

What it does well

  • Fast onset: The desensitising action kicks in within minutes, so you're not waiting around before play begins.
  • Balanced effect: Eases tension without numbing sensation completely, so you retain normal pleasure and sensation.
  • Clean feel: Absorbs quickly and doesn't leave greasy residue, keeping you and your toys clean during use.
  • Body-safe formula: Natural ingredients suit sensitive skin and work safely with all lubricants and toy materials.
  • Discreet packaging: The compact bottle and plain labelling keep your purchase private and portable.

Specs in full

  • Brand: Fantasy Lingerie.
  • Volume: 59ml in a squeeze bottle with a flip-cap closure for easy, mess-free dispensing.
  • Formula type: Water-based desensitising gel with natural oils and botanical extracts.
  • Key ingredients: Body-safe oils and plant-derived relaxants that work topically.
  • Texture: Smooth, silky gel that absorbs fully within a few minutes of application.
  • Compatibility: Compatible with all water-based lubricants, silicone toys, and glass.
  • Storage: Keep in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.

How to use an anal toy safely

Start by applying a small amount of Vixen Anal Relaxing Gel directly to the external area. Gently massage it in with a fingertip using slow, circular motions until it's fully absorbed—usually within two to three minutes. While you wait, relax your breathing and allow your body to settle. Once the gel has taken effect, you're ready to proceed with play at your own pace.

Pair the gel with a quality water-based lubricant for glide during insertion. Begin slowly and only progress when your body feels ready; the gel reduces tension, but it doesn't remove the need for patience and gradual warm-up. If you're exploring with a toy for the first time, consider starting with something small like Beginner Prostate Beads, which let you control depth and pace. Never force anything, and stop immediately if you experience sharp pain rather than stretching sensation.

Is it a good match?

This gel suits anyone seeking to reduce tension and anxiety during anal play.

Great if you…
  • Are new to anal exploration and want to ease into it without physical tension blocking pleasure.
  • Experience occasional discomfort or tightness and want a fast, reliable way to relax before a session.
  • Want to pair a gel with toys or other tools—it complements everything from Anal Balls to larger insertables.
  • Prefer a product that absorbs cleanly and leaves no greasy mess on your skin or sheets.
Maybe not if you…
  • Seek complete numbness—this gel eases tension but maintains normal sensation and pleasure.
  • Have a known sensitivity to botanical extracts or prefer a simpler, minimal-ingredient formula.
Always apply the gel and wait for it to absorb fully before beginning play, and use a separate water-based lubricant to ensure safe glide during any insertion. Safety first. Use only toys with a flared base or retrieval cord — anything without one can be drawn inside and require medical removal. Go slowly, use plenty of lubricant, and seek medical advice for bleeding or lasting pain. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice; it does not account for your individual circumstances. Stop use and seek medical advice if you experience pain, numbness, swelling, discolouration, bleeding or persistent irritation.

Care and storage

Keep the bottle in a cool, dry place out of direct sunlight—a bathroom cabinet or bedside drawer works well. Recap the flip-top after each use to prevent the formula from drying out. Wash your hands and any toys thoroughly with warm soap and water after play. The gel is safe for skin but should not be ingested, and if it comes into contact with eyes, rinse with clean water immediately.

Where to read more

For broader guidance on choosing and using anal products safely, read our Anal Sex Toys Guide, which covers preparation, technique, aftercare, and product selection. The resource covers everything from warm-up steps to choosing toys matched to your experience level.

What to expect

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Most users feel the desensitising effect within three to five minutes of application. The sensation is subtle—a gentle easing of tightness rather than a dramatic numbing—so you'll stay aware of your body and able to signal comfort or discomfort to a partner. First-timers often report that the mental shift is as important as the physical one: knowing you have something that works reduces anxiety and lets you actually relax.

The gel absorbs fully and doesn't interfere with other products. Many people apply it, then use a water-based lubricant a minute or two later for glide. The formula works best when you pair it with slow breathing and gradual warm-up; the gel reduces tension but doesn't replace the need for patience and time.

Cleaning is straightforward—any residue wipes away easily with a damp cloth or thorough hand-washing. The 59ml bottle lasts through many sessions depending on how much you use per application. Some users keep one bottle at home and a smaller decant in a travel bag for discretion.

People new to anal play often wish they'd had this from the start, as it removes a major barrier to relaxation. Experienced users tend to reach for it when they want a longer, more leisurely session without the physical focus on tension. Those who return it usually find the desensitising effect either too mild for their needs or discover they don't need chemical support once they've practised warm-up and breathing.

How it compares

Product Primary Function Best For Effect On Sensation Absorption
Vixen Anal Relaxing Gel 59ml Desensitising comfort gel Easing tension and anxiety before play Reduces muscle tension; preserves normal sensation Fast, non-greasy
Standard anal lubricant Lubrication only Glide during insertion and play No change to sensitivity or sensation Varies by product
Numbing anal cream Complete desensitising Users who need stronger numbness Significantly dulls all sensation Slower, often greasy
Warm-up butt plug or probe Gradual physical stretching Building capacity and confidence over time Normalises sensation as you adjust N/A—applied topically as needed

The bottom line

Browse Vixen Anal Relaxing Gel 59ml by Fantasy Lingerie if you want to ease into anal play without anxiety holding you back. The fast-acting formula works within minutes, absorbs cleanly, and lets you keep your sense of pleasure and sensation. Order it from Malechastity.com.au with discreet Australia-wide delivery, and add it to your routine whenever you want a relaxed, confident session. Discreet, Tracked Shipping Australia-Wide.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is Vixen's Soothing Anal Pleasure Gel - 59ml Desensitizing Formula and what type of product is it?
A desensitizing gel specifically designed for anal play comfort, Vixen's Soothing Anal Pleasure Gel uses natural oils and extracts to ease tension and discomfort. The 59ml formula works within minutes to relax sensitive areas while maintaining sensation for pleasure-focused experiences.
Does Vixen's Soothing Anal Pleasure Gel - 59ml Desensitizing Formula work quickly to provide comfort during anal play?
Fast-acting relief comes within minutes of application, allowing the desensitizing blend to ease tension without complete numbness. The body-safe formula absorbs quickly without greasy residue, letting you focus on pleasure rather than discomfort or anxiety during intimate moments.
Why choose Vixen's Soothing Anal Pleasure Gel - 59ml Desensitizing Formula over standard lubricants for anal exploration?
Unlike regular lubricants that only provide glide, this gel actively desensitizes sensitive areas while maintaining enough sensation for pleasure. The natural oil blend reduces anxiety and physical tension, making anal play more enjoyable for both first-timers and experienced players.
Will experienced keyholders appreciate the Vixen's Soothing Anal Pleasure Gel - 59ml Desensitizing Formula for anal training sessions?
Couples exploring power dynamics and anal control find the desensitizing formula removes mental barriers and physical tension. Guys new to anal play, those seeking comfort during toy use, and anyone wanting anxiety-free exploration benefit from its balanced numbing effect.
Has MaleChastity.com.au got the Vixen's Soothing Anal Pleasure Gel - 59ml Desensitizing Formula available with discrete shipping?
Australian buyers can order directly from MaleChastity.com.au with complete privacy and discrete packaging. The compact 59ml bottle ships nationwide, arriving ready for immediate use with other anal play products from their extensive collection of intimate accessories.

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