Silicone strap-on with adjustable harness and vibration modes. Waterproof design for couples seeking customizable fit and multiple intensity settings.
Key Features:
Adjustable harness system provides custom secure fit
Body-safe silicone construction feels smooth against skin
Multiple vibration modes offer complete intensity control
Waterproof design enables confident wet play adventures
Lavender artistic styling combines beauty with functionality
The Gratify L/XL Lavender Adjustable Strap-On by Vibe Therapy is a waterproof vibrating strap-on with an adjustable harness and multiple vibration modes. It suits couples seeking customisable fit and couples exploring partnered play with reliable, hands-free stimulation.
The Gratify L/XL Lavender Adjustable Strap-On by Vibe Therapy combines a harness that adapts to your body with a vibrating silicone dildo, offering control over both fit and intensity. The adjustable strap system contrasts sharply with fixed-size harnesses—most basic designs leave users compromising between comfort and security, whereas this one lets you dial in the fit you need. Silicone construction feels smooth against skin and suits extended sessions.
Waterproof design frees you to use it in the shower, bath, or bedroom without worrying about water damage. The vibration mechanism delivers multiple intensity settings, so you can tailor stimulation from gentle to intense. Unlike standard cock rings, which sit passively around the shaft, a strap-on harness offers hands-free partnered penetration with active sensation control.
Before your first session, loosen all straps fully and step into the harness as you would underwear. Pull it up until the dildo sits at the right angle for penetration—usually just below horizontal. Fasten the waist strap snugly but not so tight that it cuts off circulation; you should fit two fingers under it comfortably. Tighten the thigh straps next to anchor the harness so it will not shift during movement.
Once fitted, test the vibration on its lowest setting to confirm comfort and positioning. If the harness rides up or the angle feels wrong, loosen and re-seat it slightly. Unlike fixed harnesses or Spiked Cock Rings, which offer no adjustment, this system lets you correct fit mid-session by loosening a strap without full removal. Wear time builds from five or ten minutes in your first attempt to longer sessions as you grow accustomed to the sensation and weight.
Explore the full range of Adjustable Cock Rings if you are seeking customisable fit options for partnered play.
Great if you…Rinse the harness and dildo thoroughly under warm running water after each use, using a soft cloth or your hand to wipe away any lubricant or body fluids. Because the strap-on is fully waterproof, you can wash it in the shower. Allow both pieces to air-dry completely before storage—moisture trapped in the harness can encourage mildew. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight, which can fade the lavender colour over time.
Adjustable strap-ons work best when paired with quality lubricant and clear communication between partners about comfort and intensity. Learning how harness fit affects penetration angle and sensation control transforms your sessions from fumbling to confident. For a deeper dive into hands-free play equipment, read our guide on Magnetic Cock Rings to explore how different closure and fit systems shape your experience.
First-timers often underestimate how much the fit matters—a harness that slips or pinches pulls your focus away from pleasure. Because this one adjusts, you will likely nail the fit by your second attempt. The silicone feels softer and warmer than you might expect from a toy; it warms quickly against skin. Vibration intensity ranges from subtle background hum to strong pulses, so start low and build up to discover your preferred setting.
Most people find the adjustment time—getting the straps right—takes two or three minutes the first time. After that, it becomes automatic. The waterproof design genuinely works; you can rinse it mid-session without stopping. Weight and bulk feel less intrusive than fixed harnesses because the adjustable system distributes pressure more evenly across your hips and thighs.
Cleaning is straightforward: warm water and a soft cloth handle most residue in under a minute. The main maintenance task is ensuring it dries fully before storage—leaving it damp encourages smell and material breakdown. Battery life typically lasts several hours on a full charge; check the included instruction leaflet for your specific model's recharge time.
People who return strap-ons usually cite poor fit or discomfort during wear. Because this model adjusts, those complaints rarely apply. The main trade-off is that more straps mean slightly more setup time than a one-size design, but most users find that worthwhile for the comfort gain.
| Style | Fit System | Vibration | Waterproof | Best for |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Adjustable Vibrating (Gratify L/XL) | Multi-strap customisable harness | Yes, multiple modes | Yes, fully submersible | Couples seeking comfort and intensity control |
| Fixed Silicone Strap-On | One-size-fits-most harness | No vibration | Yes, silicone is waterproof | Users who want simplicity without adjustment |
| Leather Harness | Fixed or basic adjustment | No vibration (dildo not included) | No, leather requires care | Style-focused couples who prioritise appearance |
| Hands-Free Vibrating Dildo Only | No harness; requires partner hands | Yes, multiple modes | Yes, if silicone body | Solo use or partner-assisted play without harness |
Score a strap-on that actually fits your body and lets you control sensation the way you want it. The Gratify L/XL Lavender Adjustable Strap-On by Vibe Therapy works in the shower, the bedroom, or anywhere spontaneous play strikes, because waterproof design means no compromise. Order it from Malechastity.com.au with discreet Australia-wide delivery and discover why couples come back to gear that simply works every time. Shipped Fast From Our Australian Warehouse.
Malechastity.com.au ships with Australia Post. We ship from Sydney.
All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 1-6 business days after shipping, but may subject to any postage carrier related delays beyond our control.
Free standard shipping on orders shipped within Australia above $200. For orders below $200 standard shipping within Australia is $12.95 and will be added at checkout.
Orders addressed to P.O box, G.P.O box or Parcel Collect will be handled by Australia Post. Extra time should be allocated for these orders.
Shipping Transit Times (Including Free Shipping)
Shipping time refers to the estimated time that it will take to deliver your order after it’s ready to ship (Please note this does not include time to process your order). Shipping time does not commence after your order is put through but begins the moment your order has been processed and is ready to dispatch via the our freight carrier..
All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.
Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.
All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.
Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.
Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the local Australia Post depot.
The price for international shipping is AU$12.95 for orders equal to or below 0.399kg (399grams), and AU$22.95 for orders with a total weight equal to or above 0.4kg (400 grams).
All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping.
If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.
Please note in regards to all orders
– These expected delivery dates/times are based on carrier shipping practices, your destination, and the items in your order.
– Expected delivery dates are estimates. Orders can be delayed due to fraud verification or the time of the order being placed. Items that are not regularly stocked cannot be held to the expected delivery dates.
– Orders may be delivered in separate shipments.
– The order cut off times are based on normal Business Hours and exclude weekends and Holidays: Monday – Friday 12 pm
– When your order ships you will receive an email from us with a link to track your order. If you receive your tracking number before 6 pm (AEST) it may not be updated on the Carrier’s website until that evening.
Due to large amounts of online credit card fraud, all orders are subject to approval by our payment verification department. We will notify you by phone or email should your order be delayed.
We have a 14 day return policy, which means you have 14 days after receiving your item to request a refund for any defective products.
Returns and exchanges are only available for faulty items, goods not as described, or in some instances, for incorrect sizing.
Due to health and safety regulations, Maleshastity.com.au cannot resell any returned or exchanged products.
This policy is in place to prioritise your well-being and ensure that you receive the highest standard of hygiene and quality in all products.
To be eligible for a refund, your item must be in the same condition that you received it, unworn or unused, with tags, and in its original packaging.
You’ll also need the receipt or proof of purchase. We do not issue refunds for change of mind or incorrect choice.
Under Australian Consumer Law, we are not obliged to accept returns for “incorrect choice” or “change of mind” so please choose your products carefully.
Any freight and insurance costs to return the item to us are at your expense. This includes the liability for any lost freight – send via registered post.
If your return request is accepted, we will provide you with all instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent back to us without first requesting a return will not be accepted.
Damages and issues
Please inspect your order upon reception and contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.
Exceptions / non-returnable items
We do not accept returns for any products that have change of mind, damaged products, or for products that have been used or do not have their original packaging.
Please get in touch if you have questions or concerns about your specific item.
Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards.
Refunds
We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.
Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund too.