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They Them Dildo Malachite by Tantus

$99.99
$99.99

Flexible realistic dildo from Tantus with 5 inches of insertable length and 1.6-inch diameter. Harness-compatible soft silicone for G-spot and P-spot play.

Key Features:

Targets G-spot and P-spot with comfortable 5-inch insertable length

Ultra-premium soft silicone construction ensures body-safe flexible pleasure

Harness-compatible base opens possibilities for solo and partner play

Substantial 1.6-inch diameter provides satisfying fullness without overwhelming

Five gorgeous colors available including Azure and Malachite options

Vendor: Tantus
SKU: NEW-1313-COPPER
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Realistic Dildos
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Colour: Copper

The They Them Dildo Malachite by Tantus is a flexible silicone dildo offering 5 inches of insertable length with a substantial 1.6-inch diameter, designed for G-spot and P-spot stimulation. Its shorter proportions deliver satisfying fullness without overwhelming depth, making it ideal for solo exploration or partnered play.

At a glance
  • Material: Ultra-well-made soft silicone, medical-grade and body-safe for all bodies and orifices.
  • Dimensions: 5.5 inches total length with 5 inches insertable; 1.6-inch diameter for substantial fullness.
  • Design: Harness-compatible base opens partnered possibilities whilst maintaining solo adaptability.
  • Colour: Available in Azure, Silver, Bubble Gum, Copper, or Malachite to suit your preference.
  • Use: Targets sensitive spots for both men and all bodies; flexible enough for extended sessions.
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What you're getting

The They Them Dildo Malachite by Tantus combines thoughtful engineering with genuinely luxurious soft silicone. Its 5-inch insertable length and 1.6-inch diameter strike a careful balance—enough girth to deliver real sensation, short enough to let you maintain control. Unlike longer realistic dildos that demand careful positioning, this one adapts to your body's natural movement and sensitivity.

The well-made soft silicone stays firm enough for confident thrusting whilst remaining flexible enough that every curve feels natural against your body. Its harness-compatible base transforms it from a solo tool into a bridge for partnered exploration. This is a dildo built around what actually works in practice, not exaggerated for appearance alone.

Features worth knowing

  • Ultra-well-made Soft Silicone: Medical-grade construction delivers firmness for confident use alongside genuine flexibility that bends with your body naturally.
  • Harness-Compatible Base: The integrated design works smoothly with standard harnesses, expanding possibilities for partnered play without compromising solo sessions.
  • Optimised Dimensions: Five inches of insertable pleasure with a 1.6-inch diameter creates intense sensation whilst maintaining comfort and complete control.
  • Body-Safe Construction: 100% non-porous silicone is completely sterilisable, hypoallergenic, and safe for all bodies and all orifices.
  • Colour Expression: Choose from Azure, Silver, Bubble Gum, Copper, or Malachite to personalise your experience.

Dimensions and materials

  • Total Length: 5.5 inches from base to tip; 5 inches of that is insertable for practical depth control.
  • Diameter: 1.6 inches across the shaft, providing substantial fullness without excessive width.
  • Material: Medical-grade soft silicone, non-porous and completely sterilisable in boiling water or dishwasher.
  • Base: Harness-compatible flared design with enough surface area for safe partnered use.
  • Weight: Lightweight for comfortable hand control and extended solo or partnered sessions.
  • Box Contents: The dildo and basic care instructions for silicone maintenance.

Preparation, use and clean-up

Before first use, wash the dildo thoroughly with warm water and mild soap, then pat dry. Apply your chosen lubricant—water-based works well with silicone—in light layers rather than one heavy application. This allows you to feel the dildo's movement and respond to its sensations. Start slowly, allowing your body to adjust to the 1.6-inch diameter before increasing pace or pressure.

Clean after every session with warm water and soap, paying attention to the seam where the base meets the shaft. For deeper sterilisation, boil for 3–5 minutes or run through a dishwasher cycle. Dry completely and store away from direct heat and sunlight. Unlike realistic butts that require specific positioning, this shorter design sits safely in a drawer or dedicated toy bag without worry about pressure damage.

Who gets on with it

Men exploring G-spot and P-spot pleasure often compare this to vibrating dildos but prefer this one's direct tactile feedback and simplicity.

Great if you…
  • Want satisfying girth without overwhelming length or depth concerns holding you back.
  • Explore solo and partnered play interchangeably without needing two separate toys.
  • Prefer direct sensation and response to vibration, or want zero battery dependency.
  • benefit a dildo that adapts to your body rather than requiring your body to adapt to it.
Maybe not if you…
  • Seek deeper stimulation—the 5-inch insertable length suits controlled play, not maximum depth.
  • Require vibration for arousal or sensation; this is a manually-controlled tool alone.
Wash your hands and the dildo before and after use, and always use adequate lubrication to prevent discomfort or tissue irritation. Safety first. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice; it does not account for your individual circumstances. Stop use and seek medical advice if you experience pain, numbness, swelling, discolouration, bleeding or persistent irritation.

Care and storage

Silicone is durable but benefits from proper care. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight, heat sources, and other silicone toys that may discolour it. Avoid contact with petroleum-based products. Keep it separate from toys made of other materials to prevent contamination. A dedicated fabric bag or breathable pouch protects it from dust whilst allowing air circulation. Stored correctly, this dildo will perform reliably for years.

Dig deeper

Understanding how realistic dildos differ in design and material helps you choose what genuinely suits your body and preferences. Read more in our guide on Evolved Realistic Dildo to discover how silicone construction and proportional design create the difference between a toy you tolerate and one you reach for repeatedly.

What to expect

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The 5-inch insertable length and 1.6-inch diameter create a different sensation than longer or thinner options. On first use, the girth may feel substantial if you are new to insertive play—this is normal. Most people find the flexible silicone responds well to steady pressure and slow, deliberate movement. The softness means you feel subtle changes in angle and tension, which many users prefer over rigid designs.

The shorter length removes a common frustration: you stay in control throughout use, without worrying that depth will become uncomfortable as you relax or move. Solo sessions tend to feel more intuitive because you can focus entirely on sensation rather than positioning. The harness-compatible base opens partnered possibilities without requiring a separate toy, making transitions seamless.

Cleaning is straightforward—warm water and soap work perfectly, and silicone does not trap bacteria like some materials. The dildo remains supple and responsive year after year with basic care. Most people report that the softness actually feels better over time as they grow accustomed to its movement and responsiveness to pressure changes.

Some users initially wish for more girth until they realise the 1.6 inches actually hits sensitive spots more precisely than thicker toys. The firmness-to-flexibility ratio means you get confident thrusting sensation without the dildo bending unpredictably. Fewer returns happen with this design than with longer or significantly thicker alternatives—self-selection works in your favour.

How it compares

Feature They Them Dildo Malachite Longer Realistic Dildos (7–8 inches) Thinner Flexible Dildos (under 1.3 inches)
Insertable Length 5 inches—comfortable control for most users 7+ inches—requires careful positioning to avoid discomfort 4–6 inches—varies widely by design
Diameter 1.6 inches—substantial fullness with ease of use 1.5–2 inches—similar or greater, demands more initial adjustment Under 1.3 inches—gentler entry, less sensation of fullness
Material Firmness Soft silicone—flexible yet holds shape for thrusting Often firmer—better for deeper penetration control Highly flexible—easier insertion, less intense sensation
Harness Compatibility Yes—base designed for standard harnesses Often yes, but base size varies by brand Variable—many have no base or incompatible bases
Solo vs Partnered Equally effective for both uses Better for partnered play due to length Better for solo exploration and gentle use
Learning Curve Straightforward—length and girth suit most bodies Steeper—requires practice to find comfortable depth Gentle—ideal for first-time users, less sensation depth

The bottom line

Explore the They Them Dildo Malachite by Tantus if you appreciate genuine sensation without compromise on comfort. This well-made silicone dildo delivers the right balance of girth and length for real pleasure on your terms. Order it from Malechastity.com.au with discreet Australia-wide delivery and experience why thoughtful design outperforms exaggeration every time. Real Reviews, Straight Answers.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is the Tantus They or Them Flexible Realistic Dildo and what type of toy is it?
A flexible realistic dildo crafted from ultra-premium soft silicone, the Tantus They or Them delivers satisfying fullness with comfortable dimensions. At 5.5 inches overall with 5 inches insertable and 1.6-inch diameter, it targets G-spot and P-spot stimulation without overwhelming your body during solo or partnered play.
Can the Tantus They or Them Flexible Realistic Dildo provide intense sensations without being uncomfortable?
Premium soft silicone construction creates the perfect balance between firmness and flexibility for the Tantus They or Them. The 5-inch insertable length gives you complete control while the substantial 1.6-inch diameter delivers genuine fullness that feels incredible against your body during extended sessions.
Does the Tantus They or Them Flexible Realistic Dildo work with harnesses for partner play?
Harness-compatible base design allows the Tantus They or Them to seamlessly transition between solo exploration and partnered intimacy. The optimized dimensions and body-safe silicone construction make it perfect for targeting sensitive spots while the flexible material bends naturally with your body's movements.
Would men seeking long-term lockup enjoy the Tantus They or Them Flexible Realistic Dildo for prostate play?
Guys craving satisfying fullness without overwhelming depth find the Tantus They or Them perfectly proportioned for prostate stimulation. Those exploring solo anal play, couples wanting harness-compatible toys, and anyone seeking premium silicone quality that delivers genuine sensations with complete control benefit most.
Can you buy the Tantus They or Them Flexible Realistic Dildo with discrete shipping in Australia?
Australian buyers can order the Tantus They or Them with completely discrete shipping that arrives ready for immediate use. Available in five stunning colors including Azure, Silver, Bubble Gum, Copper, and Malachite, this premium silicone dildo ships directly to your door with total privacy.

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