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They/Them Flexible Realistic Dildo by Tantus

$99.99
$99.99

Flexible realistic dildo from Tantus with 5 inches of insertable length and 1.6-inch diameter. Harness-compatible soft silicone for G-spot and P-spot play.

Key Features:

Targets G-spot and P-spot with comfortable 5-inch insertable length

Ultra-premium soft silicone construction ensures body-safe flexible pleasure

Harness-compatible base opens possibilities for solo and partner play

Substantial 1.6-inch diameter provides satisfying fullness without overwhelming

Five gorgeous colors available including Azure and Malachite options

Vendor: Tantus
SKU: NEW-1313-COPPER
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Realistic Dildos
Please hurry! Only 0 left in stock
Colour: Copper

The Tantus They or Them is a flexible realistic dildo crafted from ultra-premium soft silicone that delivers satisfying fullness with a shorter, comfortable length. At 5.5 inches overall with 5 inches of insertable pleasure and a substantial 1.6-inch diameter, it targets G-spot and P-spot stimulation without overwhelming your body. Harness-compatible and body-safe, this premium toy works beautifully for solo play or with a partner.

Tantus They or Them Specifications

  • Brand: Tantus
  • Material: Ultra-Premium Soft Silicone
  • Total Length: 5.5 inches
  • Insertable Length: 5 inches
  • Diameter: 1.6 inches
  • Colours: Azure, Silver, Bubble Gum, Copper, Malachite
  • Key Feature: Harness-compatible, body-safe, shorter length for comfort
  • Ideal For: G-spot and P-spot stimulation, solo or partner play

Why Choose the Tantus They or Them

  1. The Right Size: Five inches of insertable pleasure hits the sweet spot between satisfying fullness and genuine comfort, without worrying about depth.
  2. Premium Soft Silicone: Firm enough to thrust with confidence, soft enough that it feels incredible against your body during extended play.
  3. Versatile Design: Works perfectly for targeting G-spot or P-spot stimulation, and the harness-compatible base opens up possibilities with a partner.

How the Tantus They or Them Works

The Tantus They or Them is designed around a simple truth: you want real satisfaction without compromise. The shorter 5-inch insertable length means you control every sensation, whether you're exploring solo or incorporating it into partner play. That 1.6-inch diameter delivers genuine fullness while the flexible ultra-premium silicone bends with your body. If you're interested in complementary sensations, explore bendable silicone P-spot beads for layered pleasure.

What makes this dildo stand apart is how it prioritizes comfort without sacrificing intensity. The premium soft silicone construction stays firm enough for confident thrusting while remaining flexible enough that every curve feels natural against your body. This balance is what transforms a good toy into one you actually want to reach for.

Tantus They or Them Features

  • Ultra-Premium Soft Silicone: Medical-grade material that's firm, flexible, and built to last through years of intense use.
  • Harness-Compatible Base: Opens up endless possibilities for partnered play without limiting your solo exploration.
  • Optimized Length and Girth: Five inches of insertable pleasure with a substantial 1.6-inch diameter creates intense sensations with complete control.
  • Body-Safe Construction: 100% non-porous silicone is completely sterilizable and safe for all orifices and all bodies.
  • Colour Range: Express yourself with Azure, Silver, Bubble Gum, Copper, or Malachite options.

Dildo Comparison

Style Best For What Makes It Different
Tantus They or Them Anyone wanting comfort with intensity Shorter length with satisfying girth targets your sensitive spots without depth concerns
Longer Realistic Dildos Experienced users seeking depth Greater insertable length means deeper stimulation but requires careful positioning
Thinner Flexible Dildos Those exploring gently Easier entry with less girth, though may not provide the same satisfying fullness

Who the Tantus They or Them Is For

Guys seeking satisfying fullness: You want something that delivers genuine sensations without overwhelming your body. The 1.6-inch diameter provides that perfect balance of fullness and comfort. Whether you're targeting your prostate or exploring with a partner, this toy responds to what you need in the moment.

Men looking to enhance partnered play: The harness-compatible base transforms this into a tool for deeper connection and intimacy with your partner. Pair it with silicone-based lubricant for seamless, extended sessions together.

Why the Tantus They or Them Delivers

This dildo cuts through the noise by focusing on what actually matters: how it feels in your hand and inside your body. The premium soft silicone is genuinely luxurious, the dimensions are thoughtfully proportioned rather than exaggerated for show, and the harness-compatible base means it adapts to whatever brings you pleasure. You're not paying for gimmicks—you're investing in a toy that will perform brilliantly whether you're alone or with someone you trust.

From the Community

Real experience:

I was hesitant about the shorter length at first, but once I tried it, I realised that's exactly what I needed. The five inches mean I control every stroke without worrying about it hitting somewhere uncomfortable. That 1.6-inch diameter feels substantial without being intimidating, and the soft silicone is incredibly responsive to pressure and movement.

The sensation is what surprised me most. It's firm enough that you feel confident thrusting, but soft enough that it genuinely feels incredible against your body during longer sessions. Switching between solo use and partner play is seamless, and the colour options mean it feels personal rather than clinical. This is a toy I actually reach for regularly.

Explore More

The Tantus They or Them is part of our wider range of premium silicone pleasure products. Discover more options in our silicone penis plugs collection to find exactly what you are looking for.

Get the Tantus They or Them

Experience premium pleasure on your own terms. The Tantus They or Them ships discreetly across Australia, arriving at your door ready to deliver exactly what you need. Add it to your collection now and explore new dimensions of satisfaction.

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1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)

All in stock orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days for orders received before 12pm. Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next business day.

Orders are typically received 1-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from the nearest depot location.

2. Rural Areas (within Australia)

All orders are generally processed on the same day the order was placed on business days before 12pm.

Generally, orders are processed and shipped the same day or next Business day.

Packages below 2kg are usually received 3-6 business days after shipping. For larger packages please allow an extra 1-2 business days for delivery.

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International Shipping

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All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping. 

If no one is available at your delivery address to accept your order a second delivery may be scheduled or you will be notified that your order can be collected from your nearest delivery depot.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is the Tantus They or Them Flexible Realistic Dildo and what type of toy is it?
A flexible realistic dildo crafted from ultra-premium soft silicone, the Tantus They or Them delivers satisfying fullness with comfortable dimensions. At 5.5 inches overall with 5 inches insertable and 1.6-inch diameter, it targets G-spot and P-spot stimulation without overwhelming your body during solo or partnered play.
Can the Tantus They or Them Flexible Realistic Dildo provide intense sensations without being uncomfortable?
Premium soft silicone construction creates the perfect balance between firmness and flexibility for the Tantus They or Them. The 5-inch insertable length gives you complete control while the substantial 1.6-inch diameter delivers genuine fullness that feels incredible against your body during extended sessions.
Does the Tantus They or Them Flexible Realistic Dildo work with harnesses for partner play?
Harness-compatible base design allows the Tantus They or Them to seamlessly transition between solo exploration and partnered intimacy. The optimized dimensions and body-safe silicone construction make it perfect for targeting sensitive spots while the flexible material bends naturally with your body's movements.
Would men seeking long-term lockup enjoy the Tantus They or Them Flexible Realistic Dildo for prostate play?
Guys craving satisfying fullness without overwhelming depth find the Tantus They or Them perfectly proportioned for prostate stimulation. Those exploring solo anal play, couples wanting harness-compatible toys, and anyone seeking premium silicone quality that delivers genuine sensations with complete control benefit most.
Can you buy the Tantus They or Them Flexible Realistic Dildo with discrete shipping in Australia?
Australian buyers can order the Tantus They or Them with completely discrete shipping that arrives ready for immediate use. Available in five stunning colors including Azure, Silver, Bubble Gum, Copper, and Malachite, this premium silicone dildo ships directly to your door with total privacy.

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