Bend Over Intermediate Kit Haze Strap-On by Tantus

The Bend Over Intermediate Kit Haze Strap-On by Tantus is a complete strap-on harness system featuring two silicone dildos, an adjustable velvet harness, and a 3-speed waterproof vibrator. It suits couples moving beyond basic exploration or anyone ready to build confidence through progressive sizing and added sensation.

A closer look

The Bend Over Intermediate Kit Haze Strap-On by Tantus brings together everything needed for strap-on play in one thoughtfully assembled package. The harness sits low across your hips, distributing weight evenly so it stays comfortable during extended wear. Two silicone dildos—Medium and Large—let you build confidence without pressure, and the removable 3-speed vibrator slots into a pocket within the harness, positioned to stimulate the wearer. Unlike basic cock rings, which encircle a single body part, this system creates a complete penetrative experience that both partners can feel and control.

What sets this kit apart is material quality and design intention. The silicone warms to body temperature for a natural feel, and the velvet harness distributes pressure without digging in. The vibrator adds layered sensation—three intensity levels let you pulse gently or intensify as arousal builds. Every component works together as a system rather than feeling like separate pieces thrown together.

What stands out

• Two silicone dildos included: Progress from Medium to Large at your own pace, building comfort and confidence without guessing or buying separately.
• Machine-washable harness: Toss the velvet harness in the washing machine after play; no hand scrubbing, no lingering odour.
• Waterproof vibrator: The 3-speed bullet works in water, so you can explore in the shower or use it solo when partnered play isn't on the agenda.
• Eco-friendly silicone: Non-porous material resists bacteria, stays hypoallergenic for all skin types, and cleans easily with soap and warm water.
• Snug adjustable fit: Velvet harness adjusts up to 60 inches, so most body shapes find a secure, comfortable position without slipping or chafing.

Measurements and materials

• Medium dildo: Silicone construction, graduated girth, designed for intermediate exploration and comfort-building play.
• Large dildo: Silicone construction, increased girth and length for partners ready to progress beyond the Medium size.
• Harness: Adjustable velvet material, fits hips up to 60 inches circumference, machine washable, quick-dry.
• O-ring: 1.45-inch opening accepts both included dildos and other compatible toys in your collection.
• Vibrator: Waterproof 3-speed bullet; operates on batteries (included); removable and independently usable.
• Box contents: Harness, Medium dildo, Large dildo, 3-speed vibrator, battery pack, care guide.

How to put it on and take it off

Start by stepping into the harness as you would underwear, then pull it up and settle it across your hips. Fasten the velcro closures on each side, then adjust until the harness sits snugly without pinching. The O-ring sits at the front. Slide your chosen dildo into the O-ring opening—the Medium size is a good starting point for first-timers—then twist it gently to lock it in place. Insert the 3-speed vibrator into its dedicated pocket on the harness, positioning it so it contacts your body when you wear it. Test the fit by pressing down; the harness should stay put without riding up or shifting sideways.

To remove, unfasten the velcro closures and step out of the harness. Take out the dildo by twisting counter-clockwise, then remove the vibrator. Rinse both dildos under warm water, wash the harness by hand or in a mesh laundry bag on gentle cycle, and allow everything to air-dry before storage. The cock ring sets in our range use similar closure mechanics, so if you've worn adjustable harnesses before, this fastening system will feel familiar and intuitive.

Who it suits

Care and storage

After each use, rinse both dildos under warm running water with a small amount of mild soap, then dry them thoroughly before storage. Machine-wash the harness on a gentle cycle in a mesh laundry bag, then hang or lay it flat to air-dry. The vibrator is removable and waterproof; rinse it under warm water after use, dry it completely, and store with fresh batteries or remove them if storing long-term. Keep everything in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Avoid silicone-based lubricants on the silicone dildos, as they can degrade the material over time.

Learn more

Strap-on play involves timing, communication, and comfort—elements that transform the physical experience into something emotionally connected. Understanding how harnesses fit, how to use multiple sizes progressively, and what vibration can add to partnered exploration will deepen your confidence with this kit. Read the Mixjoy Cock Ring Review to explore how vibration and adjustable fit work across different product types in our range.

What to expect

First-timers often underestimate the importance of fit. The harness should sit snugly without cutting off circulation or chafing—take time to adjust it properly before introducing the dildo or vibrator. Many people start with the Medium dildo regardless of their experience level; it's generous enough to feel substantial but not so large that it overwhelms. The vibrator adds genuine sensation rather than gimmick; most users find that all three speeds have a place depending on rhythm and arousal.

Cleaning is simpler than many expect. The silicone rinses clean under warm water, and the machine-washable harness means you don't need special toys cleaner or hand-scrubbing. The vibrator is genuinely waterproof, so shower exploration is straightforward. One practical note: use plenty of lubricant on the dildos themselves—more than you think you need. The silicone is non-porous, so it doesn't absorb body fluids the way porous materials do.

Wear time depends on your body and the harness adjustment, but most people report comfort during sessions lasting 30 minutes to over an hour. If the harness starts to ride up during use, pause and re-adjust the velcro closures slightly tighter. The vibrator pocket is positioned so the vibration stimulates the wearer as much as the receiving partner—it's not a silent experience, and that's intentional.

How it compares

The bottom line

Snag the Bend Over Intermediate Kit Haze Strap-On by Tantus if you're ready for a complete system built to last and designed with both partners' comfort in mind. The dual silicone dildos let you progress without pressure, the 3-speed vibrator adds shared sensation, and the machine-washable harness keeps upkeep simple. Order it from Malechastity.com.au with discreet Australia-wide delivery and start exploring with gear that actually works. Discreet, Tracked Shipping Australia-Wide.