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Leatherette Harness DESIROUS by Strap-on-me

$79.99
$79.99

One-size strap-on harness with bare-back design for direct skin contact. Includes three interchangeable rings and padded back belt.

Key Features:

Bare-back design creates direct skin contact for enhanced sensation

Padded back belt provides comfortable support during extended sessions

Three snap-button rings accommodate 4.5cm to 6.5cm dildos instantly

Universal sizing adjusts from XS to XXL bodies perfectly

Interchangeable ring system switches toys without harness removal

Vendor: Lovely Planet
SKU: NEW-11005
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Strap On Sextoys
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The Leatherette Harness DESIROUS by Strap-on-me is a strap-on harness with a bare-back design that positions a dildo directly against the wearer's skin for heightened sensation. The padded back belt and fully adjustable straps work together to distribute weight evenly, while three interchangeable snap-button rings accommodate different dildo sizes. It suits couples exploring pegging and power play who want shared sensation and reliable fit across a wide range of body shapes.

Specs at a glance
  • Material: 95% polyurethane, 2% nitrile, 2% iron, 0.5% polyester, 0.5% elastane leatherette construction.
  • Size: One size adjustable, fits XS to XXL with precision strap positioning and no fixed dimensions.
  • Ring system: Three interchangeable snap-button silicone rings in 4.5 cm, 5.5 cm, and 6.5 cm diameters.
  • Design: Bare-back harness with padded back belt and fully adjustable straps for direct skin contact.
  • Closure: Snap buttons for instant ring swaps without removing the harness during use.
  • Use: Strap-on play, pegging, power play scenarios, and partnered sessions.
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About this product

The Leatherette Harness DESIROUS by Strap-on-me is a strap-on harness engineered to position a dildo directly against your skin instead of behind a fabric barrier. The polyurethane leatherette construction sits comfortably against the body, while the padded back belt cradles your lower back and distributes the weight of the toy evenly across your frame. Adjustable straps let you customise the fit precisely, so the harness stays locked in place during movement without pinching or sliding. Unlike traditional fabric harnesses that create distance between your body and the toy, the bare-back design intensifies sensation by allowing direct contact, making every movement feel shared between partners.

The standout feature is the three-ring snap-button system: rings in 4.5 cm, 5.5 cm, and 6.5 cm diameters click into place instantly, so you can switch between different cock rings or dildo sizes without taking the harness off. This modular approach means one harness adapts to multiple scenarios. The universal one-size-adjustable fit works because the straps themselves do the sizing, not a fixed structure, so the harness genuinely fits bodies across a broad range of proportions.

The highlights

  • Bare-back design: Direct skin contact between dildo and wearer creates heightened sensation and a genuine feeling of shared intimacy during partnered play.
  • Padded back belt: Distributes weight evenly across the lower back, reducing fatigue during longer sessions and keeping the harness anchored in place.
  • Three interchangeable rings: Snap-button system lets you swap ring sizes in seconds, adapting instantly to different toys without removing the harness.
  • Universal fit: Adjustable straps accommodate body sizes from XS to XXL, with precise positioning rather than a one-size-fits-all compromise.
  • Leatherette construction: Polyurethane blend is soft against skin, easy to clean, and durable enough for regular use without degrading.

Specs in full

  • Material composition: 95% polyurethane, 2% nitrile, 2% iron, 0.5% polyester, 0.5% elastane; non-porous leatherette surface.
  • Size: One size with fully adjustable straps; fits XS to XXL depending on strap length and positioning.
  • Ring diameters: Three snap-button silicone rings measure 4.5 cm, 5.5 cm, and 6.5 cm; made to accommodate most standard dildo shafts.
  • Closure system: Snap buttons on rings and harness body for tool-free, instant attachment and removal.
  • Back belt: Padded construction with elasticated edges for comfort and grip against the body.
  • Weight: Lightweight design; exact weight not specified but leatherette and snap system keep overall load minimal.
  • Box contents: Harness, three interchangeable silicone rings, care instructions.

Wearing a leather cock ring day to day

Begin by adjusting all straps to a comfortable baseline before attaching a dildo or ring. The back belt should sit snugly against your lower back without cutting in; the hip straps should lie flat across your hips and thighs. Once positioned, snap your chosen ring size into place—the snap buttons are firm enough to stay locked during movement but simple to release with a thumb press when you need to swap sizes. During partnered play, the adjustable straps allow fine-tuning if the harness shifts; tighten or loosen without stopping, since the snaps give you access to the strap fastenings without removing the entire harness.

After each session, rinse the leatherette and silicone rings under warm running water with mild soap, then pat dry with a soft cloth. The polyurethane construction is non-porous, so it does not harbour bacteria the way fabric might. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight to preserve the leatherette finish. If you use the harness with water-based lubricant, clean it immediately afterwards; silicone lubricant is also compatible. For extended or frequent play, pair the harness with Urethral Insert C-Rings for added sensation and control, though the bare-back design already delivers intense shared feedback on its own.

Is it right for you?

This harness suits couples and partners who prioritise shared sensation and need a fit that genuinely adapts across different body shapes and toy sizes.

Great if you…
  • Want direct skin contact rather than a fabric barrier between your body and the toy.
  • Have struggled with harnesses that either fit poorly or feel too restrictive.
  • Own or plan to use multiple dildo sizes and want to swap between them without removing the harness.
  • benefit a lightweight design that does not feel bulky during extended wear or movement.
Maybe not if you…
  • Prefer traditional fabric harnesses with a fixed ring size and established shape.
  • Are new to strap-on play and want a simpler, one-configuration-only design to learn with.
  • Need a harness that can also function as stretchy cock rings for the receiving partner, since this is designed for the wearer alone.
Always inspect the harness and rings for damage before use, and ensure the snap buttons are fully locked before any penetration to prevent accidental detachment of the ring or toy. Safety first. A constriction ring is not suitable if you have circulation problems, diabetes, a bleeding disorder or reduced sensation; never wear one for longer than the manufacturer states, and remove it immediately if it will not come off easily. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice; it does not account for your individual circumstances. Stop use and seek medical advice if you experience pain, numbness, swelling, discolouration, bleeding or persistent irritation.

Care and storage

Rinse the harness and silicone rings under warm water with mild soap after each use, paying particular attention to the snap buttons and seams where lubricant can collect. Dry thoroughly with a soft cloth before storage. The leatherette is non-porous, so it resists bacterial growth better than fabric, but moisture should not be left to sit. Store in a cool, dark place away from direct sunlight and heat sources, which can degrade the polyurethane over time. Keep the rings snapped in place if stacked for storage, and avoid folding the back belt sharply for extended periods.

Where to read more

For deeper insight into harness design, sizing strategies, and how different materials affect sensation during partnered play, visit our Cock Ring Shop guide. You will find practical advice on fitting, material care, and how to choose between harness styles based on your priorities and body shape.

What to expect

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The bare-back design takes adjustment if you are used to traditional fabric harnesses. On first wear, the direct contact between the leatherette and your skin feels noticeably different—some find it more intimate immediately, while others need one or two uses to get accustomed to the sensation. The padded back belt sits low and wide, so weight distribution feels even right from the start. The snap buttons are firm enough to hold without wobbling, but not so stiff that swapping rings requires tools or struggle.

Most users find the universal sizing works better than expected because the straps themselves do the fitting rather than relying on a fixed structure. Position the back belt level across your lower back, draw the hip straps snug but not tight, and the harness will stay anchored through movement. Adjustment on the fly is straightforward—you can loosen or tighten any strap in seconds without removing the harness, which matters during longer sessions when comfort preferences can shift.

Cleaning is simpler than fabric harnesses because the polyurethane leatherette surface is non-porous. Warm water and mild soap are sufficient; the material does not absorb lubricant or body fluids the way fabric does. Silicone lubricant is compatible, though water-based products work equally well and are easier to rinse off. The snap-button rings are durable silicone, not prone to cracking, and the metal fasteners are stainless steel.

First-time users sometimes worry that the three fixed ring sizes will not accommodate their chosen toy, but the 4.5 cm, 5.5 cm, and 6.5 cm diameter range covers most standard dildos. If your toy shaft sits between sizes, the silicone ring itself stretches slightly during wear, so a snug fit at snap-in becomes comfortable within seconds. The harness itself is lightweight, so it does not fatigue the wearer during extended play the way heavier harnesses can.

How it compares

Feature Leatherette Harness DESIROUS Traditional Fabric Harness Underwear-Style Harness
Skin contact design Bare-back; direct dildo-to-skin contact Fabric barrier between body and toy Fabric barrier; underwear appearance
Ring system Three interchangeable snap-button rings One fixed ring size One fixed ring size
Fit range XS to XXL via adjustable straps Usually S, M, L sizing; less adaptive Usually S, M, L sizing; restricted fit
Cleaning Non-porous leatherette; quick rinse Fabric absorbs fluid; more intensive wash needed Fabric absorbs fluid; machine or hand wash
Sensation Heightened via direct skin contact Reduced by fabric layer Reduced by fabric and underwear shape
Bulk and discretion Moderate; visible under fitted clothing Moderate; visible under fitted clothing Low; resembles underwear when clothed
Durability Polyurethane leatherette; long-lasting Fabric degrades with regular washing Fabric degrades with regular washing

The final word

Grab the Leatherette Harness DESIROUS by Strap-on-me if you want a strap-on harness that puts shared sensation at the centre of partnered play. The bare-back design, padded support belt, and interchangeable ring system set it apart from traditional fabric alternatives, and the universal adjustable sizing means the fit genuinely adapts to your body without compromise. Order it from Malechastity.com.au with discreet Australia-wide delivery, and experience how direct contact transforms intimate connection. Product Advice Whenever You Need It.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS One Size and what type of intimate accessory is it?
A revolutionary strap-on harness featuring bare-back design, the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS creates direct skin contact between dildo and wearer. Unlike traditional fabric harnesses, this padded system intensifies sensation through intimate connection while providing universal XS-XXL sizing with fully adjustable straps for unrestricted movement.
Can the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS One Size accommodate different dildo sizes during play sessions?
Three interchangeable silicone rings in 4.5cm, 5.5cm, and 6.5cm diameters snap instantly into the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS without removal. Switch between different toys mid-session using the snap-button system, adapting to any scenario while maintaining the bare-back design's enhanced sensation and intimate connection.
How does the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS One Size deliver enhanced sensation compared to traditional harnesses?
Direct skin positioning eliminates fabric barriers, letting the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS create shared sensations between partners. The padded back belt distributes weight evenly while adjustable straps position everything precisely, allowing wearers to feel every movement their partner experiences through intimate contact.
Does the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS One Size work for couples wanting maximum sensation and experienced strap-on players?
Couples craving shared intimate connection and partners frustrated with poorly fitting harnesses find the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS transforms their play. The bare-back design appeals to those wanting to feel everything together, while universal sizing satisfies anyone seeking precise adjustment and comfortable extended sessions.
Is the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS One Size available for discrete delivery across Australia?
Available now at MaleChastity.com.au with discrete shipping Australia-wide, the STRAP-ON-ME Leatherette Harness DESIROUS arrives in plain packaging. Couples across Australia can experience the revolutionary bare-back design and enhanced sensation that transforms intimate play through direct contact positioning and adjustable comfort.

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