Silky gel lubricant with desensitising formula to extend performance and reduce discomfort during intercourse or anal play. Stay-put gel base.
Key Features:
Extends sexual performance while reducing intercourse and anal discomfort
Gel-based formula stays put without constant reapplication needs
Desensitising properties provide control without complete sensation loss
Silky smooth application feels natural against skin contact
Compatible with toys for versatile solo and partner play
Midas Desensitising Lubricant Desensitising Lubricant Tube is a thicker, stay-put gel formula that reduces sensitivity to extend sexual performance and ease discomfort during intercourse or anal play. It delivers genuine control without the constant reapplication of runnier lubes, making longer sessions more comfortable and manageable.
Midas Desensitising Lubricant Desensitising Lubricant Tube is a gel-based lubricant formulated to reduce penile sensitivity temporarily whilst maintaining smooth, comfortable sensation throughout intercourse or anal play. The gel sits thicker than standard sex lubricants, meaning it clings to the skin and stays in place rather than thinning or running away during use. This consistency delivers consistent lubrication without constant reapplication or maintenance mid-session.
The desensitising element works by creating a protective layer that gently dulls sensation just enough to extend performance, but not so much that you lose all feeling or control. The formula remains silky and smooth against skin, avoiding the harsh chemical feel that some numbing products carry. This makes it practical for men managing premature ejaculation or anyone seeking longer sessions without discomfort.
Start with a small amount—roughly a 5 mm bead—applied directly to the penis or the area needing lubrication. The gel spreads easily and you can always add more if needed, but the thicker base means a little goes a long way. Allow a minute or two for the desensitising action to begin before starting sexual activity; rushing means you'll miss the full benefit.
During cooling lubricant alternatives, this gel works best applied fresh at the start of a session. For anal play, apply generously to the opening and the toy or penis, then reapply as needed, though the gel's staying power means less frequent top-ups than runny lubes require. If numbness feels too strong, wash it off and wait; the effect isn't permanent and will wear off within an hour.
Pair this gel with anal lubricant alternatives if you're exploring different sensations and play styles.
Great if you…Wash the gel off with warm water and soap immediately after use; it leaves no staining or sticky residue on skin or fabrics. Store the tube upright at room temperature, away from direct sunlight or heat sources. Screw the cap on tightly after each use to prevent the gel from drying out. Keep it in a cool, dry place and do not freeze.
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The gel takes a minute or two to activate, so don't expect instant numbness. During this window, you'll notice the protective layer building and sensation gradually becoming softer rather than disappearing entirely. First-timers often apply too much out of anxiety—a small bead is genuinely enough, and more won't speed up the effect or deepen it.
Most people report that the desensitising action feels natural rather than chemical, which is exactly what makes this work. You'll still feel pressure, warmth, and movement; you're just less sensitive to friction and minor irritation. Sessions typically extend by 30–50%, depending on how much you struggle with timing normally.
Cleanup is straightforward—warm water removes it completely—and there's no residue or staining. The gel doesn't interact badly with condoms or toys, making it practical for different scenarios. People who return it usually do so because they expected complete numbness or wanted the sensation to kick in instantly; realistic expectations about how desensitising lubes actually work matter here.
| Lubricant | Best for | Formula base | Staying power | Sensation |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Midas Desensitising Lubricant Desensitising Lubricant Tube | Extending performance and reducing friction discomfort | Silky gel, water-based | Stays put throughout session; minimal reapplication needed | Gently reduced sensitivity; control maintained |
| Standard water-based lubricant | General intercourse and toy use | Thinner, runnier formula | Requires frequent reapplication as it thins | Full sensation; no reduction in sensitivity |
| Silicone-based lubricant | Long-lasting sessions and water play | Oil-based silicone | Extremely durable; lasts through long sessions | Full sensation; not compatible with silicone toys |
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