Bum Buddies Tease My Tush Prostate Massager by Topco

Bum Buddies Tease My Tush Prostate Massager by Topco is a medical-grade silicone anal plug with a t-bar base designed for comfortable exploration at two progressive sizes. The temperature-responsive silicone shifts sensation when warmed or cooled. It suits beginners working through anal play safely and experienced users seeking deeper sensation.

What it is and how it's made

Bum Buddies Tease My Tush Prostate Massager by Topco is a tapered silicone anal plug built from medical-grade platinum-cured silicone that flexes with your body while remaining firm enough to hold its shape. The plug comes in two sizes—beginner and advanced—letting you build confidence and intensity at your own pace. Unlike standard plugs with flared bases that can dig uncomfortably into the perineum, this toy features an innovative t-bar design that distributes pressure across a wider surface and sits naturally between the cheeks. The silicone is temperature-responsive, so warming or cooling it before insertion transforms the tactile experience. Compared to other prostate toys, this one prioritises gradual progression and comfort during extended wear rather than vibration or complexity.

The medical-grade material is nonporous and body-safe, meaning it cleans thoroughly and resists bacterial growth. The smooth tapered tip makes insertion intuitive, whilst the broader base anchors securely without internal movement. Platinum-cured silicone is more durable than cheaper alternatives and maintains its integrity through regular use and cleaning over years.

What it does well

• Comfortable insertion. The tapered tip eases in smoothly, and the t-bar base eliminates the pinching and shifting that frustrate users of traditional plugs.
• Dual-size progression. Starting small lets you explore without overwhelm, then advancing to the larger size when ready keeps exploration exciting and manageable.
• Temperature contrast. Warming the silicone in warm water or cooling it in the fridge gives genuinely different sensations—fullness changes texture subtly.
• Durable and easy to clean. Medical-grade silicone withstands regular washing and does not absorb odour or bacteria, staying hygienic long-term.
• Discreet and findable. The vibrant colours make it easy to locate in storage, and the simple design stores neatly without drawing attention.

Measurements and materials

• Beginner size: 9 cm length, 3 cm width at the widest point, tapered from 0.8 cm at the tip.
• Advanced size: 13.2 cm length, 4.3 cm width at the widest point, tapered entry graduating to fuller sensation.
• T-bar base: Wider flange sits between the cheeks, approximately 4.5 cm across, reducing internal pressure.
• Material: 100% medical-grade platinum-cured silicone, nonporous and hypoallergenic.
• Weight: Beginner approximately 45 grams; Advanced approximately 75 grams.
• Colours: Orange or blue; both finishes are equally durable.
• Box contents: One plug, care card, and storage pouch.

How to use a prostate toy safely

Before use, wash the plug thoroughly with warm soapy water and dry completely. Apply water-based lubricant generously to both the toy and your anus—this is essential, as silicone does not provide natural glide and adequate lubrication prevents micro-tears and discomfort. Start by warming the silicone under warm running water or cooling it in the fridge for 10 minutes if you want to explore temperature play. Begin insertion slowly with the tapered tip, breathing steadily and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles rather than tensing them. Once fully inserted, the t-bar base should rest comfortably between your cheeks; if you feel pinching or pressure, remove it, reapply lubricant, and try again. If inserting glass or other rigid Glass Prostate Sex Toys, use extra care with pressure and angle to avoid internal injury.

Wear time should build gradually—start with 10–15 minutes and increase only if comfortable. After use, remove gently, wash immediately with warm water and mild soap, and dry thoroughly before storage. Never use silicone-based lubricant with silicone toys, as it degrades the material. Store in the pouch away from direct heat or sunlight. If you experience sharp pain, bleeding, or prolonged discomfort, remove the toy and allow time to heal before trying again.

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Care and storage

Wash the plug with warm soapy water and a soft cloth immediately after use, paying attention to the base and any crevices. Rinse thoroughly and pat dry with a lint-free cloth. Never use silicone-based lubricant or harsh cleaners, which degrade the material. Store in the included pouch in a cool, dark place away from direct heat, sunlight, or other silicone toys that may stick together. Check the surface regularly for any small tears; if found, retire the toy safely. Properly stored and cared for, medical-grade silicone lasts for years.

Want to know more?

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What to expect

The beginner size slides in noticeably easier than many users expect, especially with adequate lubricant and relaxation. Most first-time users report the tapered tip feels intuitive and the t-bar base genuinely eliminates the uncomfortable pressure they anticipated. The silicone warms quickly against your body; if you cool it beforehand, that contrast is immediate and distinct when you insert it.

First sessions are often shorter than anticipated—many people find 10–15 minutes of wear sufficient initially. Progression to the advanced size typically feels natural once you have worn the beginner plug a handful of times. The design's simplicity means there is no learning curve beyond insertion technique itself.

Cleaning is straightforward: soap and water, no special tools or fuss. The nonporous material does not trap odour, which is why users keep these toys longer than cheaper plugs. Durability is genuine—platinum-cured silicone resists tearing and staining across years of regular use, provided you avoid silicone-based lubricant and store it properly.

Users who struggle tend to be those who rush insertion without lubricant or those who expect vibration or continuous stimulation. This is a passive toy—its pleasure comes from being present, temperature play, and extended wear, not from motor-driven sensation.

How it compares

Worth adding to your collection?

Pick up the Bum Buddies Tease My Tush Prostate Massager by Topco if you want a thoughtfully designed plug that grows with your exploration and eliminates common discomfort. The dual sizing, t-bar base, and temperature-play capability make this a complete system rather than a one-note toy. Order it from Malechastity.com.au with discreet Australia-wide delivery and start your journey with confidence. Body-Safe Materials, Honestly Described.