Realistic strap-on dildo with open-crotch harness for dual stimulation. PVC cock and balls design with adjustable buckles for couples.
Key Features:
Dual-pleasure system stimulates both partners simultaneously during penetration
Lifelike PVC material with realistic cock and balls texture
Open crotch harness keeps wearer accessible throughout play
Quick snap buckles adjust securely without complicated strapping
Waterproof construction handles shower sessions and easy cleanup
Strap On Realistic Cock and Dildo With Harness by Baile is an open-crotch harness system featuring a lifelike PVC dildo designed for dual stimulation during partnered play. The wearer and receiver both stay fully accessible, making it ideal for couples who want to share pleasure simultaneously rather than take turns.
Strap On Realistic Cock and Dildo With Harness by Baile wraps around the hips with an adjustable harness and holds a lifelike dildo in position. The defining feature is the open-crotch design: instead of a solid front panel that blocks access to the wearer, this harness leaves the wearer's genitals fully exposed. That means while one partner penetrates, the other remains completely accessible for simultaneous penetration or stimulation. The realistic dildo itself mimics a natural cock and balls, made from PVC that holds its shape during use. Most dildos are designed for solo use or receiving only; this harness system explicitly builds in dual access so both partners stay in the action.
The harness assembly uses quick snap buckles rather than ties or complex strapping, which means you can adjust it on the fly without undressing completely. Materials are TPR, ABS, PU and nylon — durable enough for regular use and waterproof for easy cleanup or shower play. At 262 grams, it carries noticeable weight without becoming cumbersome, and the realistic proportions mean there is no guessing about fit or feel.
Unpack the harness and inspect the snap buckles and straps for any damage before first use. Wash the entire system under warm running water with mild soap, paying special attention to the seams where the harness meets the dildo. Rinse thoroughly and pat dry with a clean towel. If you plan to use it with a partner, discuss sizing and positioning beforehand—the open-crotch design means comfort for both people depends on good communication about what works for your bodies. Start by having the wearer put on the harness without the partner present, so you both know how snug it needs to feel. Most people find the snap buckles intuitive, but practise fastening and unfastening them a few times first. When you are ready to use it with a partner, apply a water-based lubricant generously to the dildo and the wearer's exposed genitals, since the open-crotch design means both will be in contact with the partner's body. Begin slowly to let both of you adjust to the sensation, as the realistic weight and feel of the dildo creates a different dynamic than smaller or lighter toys. Refer to Realistic Masturbators guides if you are new to body-realistic products, since the lifelike proportions can take a moment to adjust to.
This harness works best for couples who want to experience anal dildos or penetrative play where both partners feel sensation at the same time.
Great if you…Wash the harness and dildo under warm running water with mild soap immediately after use, taking time to clean the seams and the base where the dildo attaches. Rinse thoroughly until no soap residue remains, then pat dry with a lint-free cloth. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight—a dedicated drawer or storage box keeps it clean and discreet. Do not store while damp. The waterproof construction means you can also soak it in warm water with a toy cleaner if you prefer a deeper clean. Avoid harsh chemicals, bleach, or abrasive scrubbers, which can damage the materials over time.
Dual-access harnesses are relatively specialised compared to standard strap-ons, and most couples find the learning curve brief once they understand how the open-crotch design changes sensation for both partners. The realistic materials and proportions matter more for this style of play than for many other toys, since the wearer's comfort depends partly on the dildo's weight and the receiver's comfort depends on authentic feel and feedback. Read our guide to The Black Realistic Dildo for more on how realistic materials affect the overall experience.
The open-crotch design feels fundamentally different from standard harnesses because you are not sacrificing access to feel authentic penetration yourself. Most people report that the simultaneous stimulation creates a shared sensation rather than a giver-and-receiver dynamic, which changes the emotional intensity of the experience. The realistic weight of the dildo and harness is noticeable—you will feel it the entire time you are wearing it, which some prefer for the anchoring sensation and others find fatiguing after 20 or 30 minutes of active play.
First-timers often struggle less with the mechanics than they expect. The snap buckles are genuinely intuitive, and the straps adjust quickly. The larger learning curve is usually communication—deciding together how snug the harness should be and how much lubricant you both need. The realistic proportions mean the dildo takes up real space, so positioning matters more than with smaller or abstract toys.
Cleanup is straightforward because the waterproof materials rinse clean without trapping debris or odour. The main upkeep challenge is drying it fully before storage, since leaving it damp can eventually affect the nylon straps. Most people find this toy holds up well with regular use over months or years if the snap buckles are not forced or overtightened.
This harness tends to suit couples who already have some experience with penetrative play and know their bodies' responses. Absolute beginners often do better starting with a simpler harness to get comfortable with the basics before adding the complexity of simultaneous access and realistic proportions.
| Harness Style | Crotch Access | Dildo Type | Best For | Closure | Waterproof |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Baile Open-Crotch Realistic | Fully open | Lifelike PVC cock and balls | Couples wanting dual simultaneous pleasure | Quick snap buckles | Yes |
| Standard Closed Harness | Fully enclosed | Variable (abstract or realistic) | Focus on receiving pleasure only | Velcro or ties | Often not |
| Vibrating Harness | Fully enclosed | Vibrating dildo | Maximum intensity for the receiver | Velcro or straps | Varies |
| Adjustable Leg Harness | Fully open | Dildo mounts to leg or thigh strap | Hands-free penetration without hip harness | Multiple straps | Sometimes |
Snag the Strap On Realistic Cock and Dildo With Harness by Baile from Malechastity.com.au if you and your partner want to experience penetration together without anyone sitting out. The open-crotch design and realistic dildo set it apart from standard harnesses that focus all the pleasure on the receiving partner. Order it with discreet Australia-wide delivery and explore how simultaneous access changes your play. Product Advice Whenever You Need It.
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