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All In Strap On Dildo Handle by SI Novelties

$24.99
$24.99

Rigid plastic grip handle for strap-on dildos. ABS construction attaches via vac-u-lock base for handheld control during penetration.

Key Features:

Handheld grip attachment for vac-u-lock compatible strap-on dildos

Phthalate-free ABS plastic construction ensures body-safe, non-porous material

Rigid design provides precise control and direct tactile feedback during use

Lightweight grip reduces hand fatigue during extended solo or partnered sessions

Smooth surface requires minimal maintenance and stores in minimal space

Vendor: SI Novelties
SKU: NEW-11984-BLACK
Availability: Out Of Stock
Product type: Strap On Sextoys
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Colour: Black

All In Strap On Dildo Handle by SI Novelties is a rigid plastic grip made to attach to any strap-on dildo with a compatible base hole, giving you direct handheld control during partnered or solo use. It adds leverage and stability when you want to guide penetration yourself rather than rely solely on harness positioning.

At a glance
  • Type: Handheld grip attachment for strap-on dildos with vac-u-lock or compatible base holes.
  • Material: ABS plastic, phthalate-free, non-porous and easy to clean between uses.
  • Compatibility: Works with all strap-on dildos and dongs featuring a hole in the base.
  • Design: Rigid construction provides firm grip and precise control during penetration.
  • Care: Wash with soap and warm water, air dry completely before storage.
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A closer look

All In Strap On Dildo Handle by SI Novelties is a straightforward attachment piece that transforms any compatible dildo into a handheld toy. The handle slots onto the base of your existing strap-on via its vac-u-lock receptacle, giving you a rigid grip to control depth, angle and pace without needing a harness. This opens up new possibilities for solo exploration or partner play where direct handheld contact matters more than hands-free harness wear.

Built from ABS plastic, the handle is lightweight yet sturdy enough to withstand firm gripping during use. Its phthalate-free composition means it's body-safe, and the smooth plastic surface requires minimal maintenance. The rigid design ensures no flex or give—you get precise tactile feedback and total command over your dildo's positioning.

Notable features

  • Vac-u-lock compatible: Attaches securely to any dildo or dong with a standard vac-u-lock base hole for reliable connection.
  • Ergonomic grip: Shaped for comfortable handheld use during extended sessions without hand fatigue or slipping.
  • Rigid construction: No flex or give means you control every movement with precision and feel exactly what's happening.
  • Phthalate-free ABS plastic: Body-safe material that is non-porous, non-absorbent, and resistant to staining or odour retention.
  • Minimal maintenance: Smooth surface design means no crevices or textured areas where bacteria or cleaning solution can hide.

The technical detail

  • Material: ABS plastic (phthalate-free).
  • Base connection: Vac-u-lock receptacle compatible with standard vac-u-lock dildos, dongs and attachments.
  • Weight: Lightweight for extended handheld use without arm strain.
  • Finish: Smooth plastic; non-textured surface for easy cleaning and hygiene.
  • Box contents: All In Strap On Dildo Handle attachment; compatible dildo or dong not included.

Working up to a dildo comfortably

Start with lubrication—use a generous amount of water-based lubricant on both the dildo and your body to ease insertion and reduce friction. Begin with shallow penetration, letting your body adjust to the girth and length before moving deeper. The handheld grip gives you total control, so take your time and move at a pace that feels comfortable, pausing whenever you need to breathe or reset.

Once you're accustomed to the dildo's size, you can increase depth and speed gradually. The rigid handle means you can apply consistent pressure or angle the toy to reach different internal sensations. If you're using it with a partner, communication is key—let them know what depth and pace work best for you. Many people find that starting with Realistic Penis Sleeves or smaller insertables first helps them gauge what size feels right before moving to larger toys.

Is it right for you?

This handle suits anyone who owns a vac-u-lock dildo and wants P-Spot Dildos or other toys in handheld form.

Great if you…
  • Already own strap-on dildos with vac-u-lock bases and want to use them without a harness.
  • Prefer handheld control over hands-free harness wear for better accuracy and feedback.
  • Want to switch between harness and handheld play without buying duplicate toys.
  • benefit solo exploration where you can control every movement yourself.
Maybe not if you…
  • Own dildos without a vac-u-lock base or compatible hole—the handle will not attach.
  • Prefer hands-free play during partnered sessions where both people's hands stay free.
Use plenty of water-based lubricant, start slowly, and stop immediately if you feel sharp pain or discomfort—mild pressure is normal, but pain signals you need to pause or reduce depth. Safety first. This information is general in nature only and is not medical or professional advice; it does not account for your individual circumstances. Stop use and seek medical advice if you experience pain, numbness, swelling, discolouration, bleeding or persistent irritation.

Care and storage

Wash the handle thoroughly with warm soapy water after every use, paying attention to the vac-u-lock connection point where bacteria can accumulate. Rinse well and air dry completely before reattaching to your dildo or storing it away. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Keep it separate from silicone toys, as ABS plastic can occasionally discolour silicone if they touch for extended periods.

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What to expect

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The first time you attach the handle, you'll notice how much more direct control you gain compared to harness-only use. The rigid grip gives you instant tactile feedback—you'll feel exactly how your toy is angled and where pressure is being applied. Most people find the learning curve minimal; if you've used a strap-on before, handheld grip control feels intuitive within the first session.

Depth management becomes easier with a handheld approach because you're no longer relying on harness angle or hip movement. You can pause mid-insertion, adjust angle on the fly, and repeat specific movements precisely. This is particularly useful if you're exploring new sensations or working with a partner who wants to give you specific guidance about pace and positioning.

The handle itself requires very little maintenance—it's smooth, non-porous ABS plastic that cleans in seconds under running water. Unlike textured silicone dildos, you won't trap lubricant or bodily fluid in crevices. Storage is straightforward: dry it completely and keep it in a clean, dark place. Most handles last indefinitely with basic care.

People who return handheld attachments usually do so because their existing dildos aren't vac-u-lock compatible, or because they realise they prefer hands-free harness wear for their particular play style. If you already own a compatible dildo and want more control during use, this attachment typically stays in regular rotation.

How it compares

Feature All In Strap On Dildo Handle Traditional Strap-On Harness Standalone Handheld Dildo
Control style Handheld grip attachment for existing dildos Hands-free harness-based wear Independent toy, no attachment needed
What you need to own Compatible vac-u-lock dildo base already required Separate harness and dildo required Single complete toy; nothing else needed
Hands availability At least one hand needed for grip Both hands free during use One or both hands can be free depending on preference
Penetration precision Very high; direct real-time control Medium; controlled by hip movement and positioning Depends on toy design; varies widely
Setup time Attach handle to existing dildo; under one minute Put on harness, insert dildo; two to three minutes None; pick up and use immediately
adaptability across play styles Bridges handheld and harness use; works with one dildo Works with most compatible dildos and attachments Single toy; limited to its specific shape and function
Cleaning and storage Smooth plastic; rinse and air dry; minimal space Fabric and plastic; requires more detailed washing Depends on toy material; clean and store individually

The final word

Grab All In Strap On Dildo Handle by SI Novelties if you want to add handheld control to your existing vac-u-lock dildos without buying a whole new toy or harness. It's a practical bridge between hands-free and direct-grip play, giving you precision and feedback when you need it. Order it from Malechastity.com.au with discreet Australia-wide delivery and start exploring a new dimension of solo or partnered penetration play. Australian Owned, Australian Stocked.

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1. Major City & Metro Areas (within Australia)

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All in-stock orders placed before 12pm AEST (Sydney Time) on business days are generally processed on the same day. Packages are usually received 6-30 business days after shipping. 

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We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved or not. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method within 7 business days.

Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process and post the refund too.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the All In Strap On Dildo Handle by SI Novelties and how does it attach to existing dildos?
A rigid plastic grip attachment, the All In Strap On Dildo Handle connects to any vac-u-lock compatible dildo base, transforming your existing toy into a handheld device. Built from phthalate-free ABS plastic, it provides firm control during solo or partnered penetration play without requiring a harness.
Why does the All In Strap On Dildo Handle by SI Novelties offer better control than harness-only strap-ons?
Direct handheld grip gives you instant tactile feedback and precision control over depth, angle, and pace that harness positioning alone cannot match. The rigid construction means zero flex—you feel exactly how your toy is angled and can pause mid-insertion to adjust on the fly or repeat specific movements precisely.
Does the All In Strap On Dildo Handle by SI Novelties work with all strap-on dildos and attachments?
Compatible exclusively with dildos featuring vac-u-lock base holes or standard receptacles, the All In Strap On Dildo Handle won't attach to toys without this connection point. If your existing dildos have vac-u-lock compatibility, you can switch the same toy between harness and handheld use within seconds.
Are there specific types of men who prefer the All In Strap On Dildo Handle by SI Novelties for their play style?
Guys already owning vac-u-lock dildos who want handheld control, those exploring solo penetration with precision, and couples wanting to switch between harness and handheld play benefit most. Partners preferring direct feedback during sessions and anyone wanting to avoid duplicate toy purchases find this handle essential for versatile play.
How do you order the All In Strap On Dildo Handle by SI Novelties in Australia?
Order through Malechastity.com.au with fast tracked Australian shipping and plain, discreet packaging protecting your privacy. The attachment arrives ready to use—simply attach it to your compatible vac-u-lock dildo base and begin handheld play immediately, backed by warranty and product support.

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