Talking about your kinks and fantasies with your partner is an important part of any relationship. Enjoying each other’s kinkiest desires can grow a relationship and even bring you closer together. Being able to talk about what turns you on with your significant other is a vital part of communication as a couple. It will help you understand each other’s needs, be aware of each other’s boundaries, and make it possible for you to fulfill the fantasies that you might have. There are multiple kinks that can be explored with your partner, so to get you started, we have compiled a list of the most popular fetishes that you might want to try.
Bondage is one of the most common fetishes and there is a wide variety of BDSM equipment that can be used in the bedroom, from rope to handcuffs to restraints like spreader bars. If you haven’t tried bondage before, start somewhere simple like handcuffing your partner’s hands together and then build up what kind of things you use as you both become more and more comfortable.
Typically involved in BDSM fetishes, domination involves taking control and dominating the submissive partner through things like discipline, power play, and orgasm control. Consensual domination is pleasing for both the partner in control and the partner who is being dominated, and you can be as creative as you like with this one. Providing a “safe word” is a common way to ensure you are both thoroughly enjoying what you are doing and assures safety and the ability to feel relaxed. If you are totally new to being a dominant or dominatrix, there are lots of ways to explore how to do it.
Spanking is a fun way to liven up your sex life and is also a great addition to BDSM, bondage, and domination play. There are plenty of reasons why you should try out spanking with your partner; whether you want to give it or receive it, it is exciting for everyone who is involved.
Threesomes and Cuckolding
As well as physically involving other people in your sensual time together, this kink can be explored through dirty talk and watching porn. Whatever works for you as a couple, threesomes and cuckolding are popular fetishes that can bring a new level of adventure to your sex life. It is perfectly normal to feel a bit shy or unsure of how to approach a cuckolding fetish, so to help you become more comfortable and gain confidence with how to make fantasy become reality, check out some of these stories from Sarah and Jack.
Taking on characters and acting out fantasies as part of your sex life is a really fun way to spice things up. Dress your partner up in classic costumes and play out a scene, or simple roleplay through dirty talk and using your imaginations to create a scene.
When addressing the topic of kinks with your significant other and trying out new fetishes, having fun and respecting each other’s boundaries is an incredibly important factor to take into consideration. Discover each other’s fantasies and fetishes in a personal, intimate way that will open up ideas you may have never even thought of before.